Where do you place your FOCUS?

Where do you place your FOCUS?

Where do you place your FOCUS?

How do you know you’re placing your focus on the right things / actions / people / conversations / thoughts?

How do you know?

It really is very simple.

Look at the life you’re creating. ??

That’s it.

If you have expected a more elaborate answer, I am sorry to disappoint you.

Your life is your mirror.

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You might want to say “But Michaela, what about all these people in my life that don’t understand me, that are annoying me, that are trying to sabotage my life?”

With so much love in my heart, I am sending this message:

“Stop the BS and take responsibility for your life.”

Stop focusing on how people don’t understand you. Stop focusing on how annoying they are. Stop focusing on how they are trying to sabotage you. (btw – everyone has their own things going on, nobody has time to sabotage your life)

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And start focusing on the life you’re creating.

What’s your commitment to yourself?

Is life rough sometimes?

Hell yeah!

Nobody ever promised us life was going to be this linear, easy going walk in the park. I haven’t seen it written anywhere.

So stop and look at the results you’re creating in your life.

Are you happy with where you’re at? If you are, keep doing more of what you’re doing.

Are you not happy with where you’re at? Then review your focus - turning it inward.

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In all honesty – this is a message to myself today.

I woke up this morning and needed to have a word with myself as I was focusing on fear instead of possibility in one particular area of my life.

Focusing on FEAR creates more FEAR.

Focusing on POSSIBIITY creates more POSSIBILITY.

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Seeing my clients catching themselves being stuck in the place of fear and with practice and self-awareness learning how to get back into the place of possibility is (selfishly) the best feeling ever.

If you are ready to take responsibility for your life, actions, behaviours and thoughts and if you are ready to commit (I mean REALLY commit) to creating the life that you want – I WANT TO WORK WITH YOU. You are my ideal client. You inspire me.

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Bolder the goal – the better.

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Let’s do this.

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With love,

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Michaela x

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Allen Wooding

Providing Fractional Executive Assistant support, letting business owners and leaders focus on business growth.

2 年

Great article Michaela Smith, completely agree with you. Focus starts with how you set your mind, not with business strategy, following up with clients or today's 'to-do' list.

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Masten Gregory

Not just leads, but 'Surveys' and 'Set Appointments' for Renewables' Installers

2 年

HI Michaela Yeah so true that life is a mirror. It can be hard though to turn this from a concept to actually making those inner changes that we actually need ?? Guess that's where you come in ??

Fiona M Brennan

Achieve Next-Level Business & Personal Success | The Visionary Entrepreneurs Business Coach & Personal Growth Strategist | Construction PM & Consultant | Speaker | VIP Days | Retreats | STEM Mentor | CEO Meditation Club

2 年

love this so much Michaela Smith

Nicolas Teston

IT Service Desk Manager - Mental Health First Aider - Menopause Champion

2 年

Michaela Smith Merci for sharing ??

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