Where do woman find high quality men? (part 2)

What’s your definition of “high-quality men”?

It would be easier to know the type of men you don’t want, and then look for the high quality of the men you do want.

You should know yourself first. Do you want to be a house wife?

?Career oriented women?

Do you want kids?

?All these factors will matter more than just having a tall, handsome, wealthy husband. If you are looking to be a working mother than don’t go for guys that aren’t looking for house-wives. There is no shortage of high-quality men looking for an educated career-oriented wife and supportive as well.

The most obvious answer is that be a high-quality woman. Be healthy, kind and educated, take care of appearance, have good sense of style and humor that makes you likable.

Go to events, talk to people and cultivate a social life. You don’t have to make a lot of friends, one or two and few acquaintances will help you stay connected to people. Basically, be out there and be visible.

Your body language is what we get attracted with. If you are bold and confident while walking and doing things. Your body language speaks a lot.

Lot of guys use pickup lines to hit girls. Just like this,

“Hey excuse me there is something wrong in my cell phone because It doesn't have your number”.

Avoid guys that associate women’s character with her sexual past, demand some young beautiful women when they are old and fat, think having a professional job makes them high-quality, these types of men has no self-awareness. They are the hero in their mind and will always suffer from narcissistic delusion. Don’t go anywhere close to them.

Here are things I personally value in a mate:

Intelligence. Without the sass please Sass is a defense mechanism anyway. I need someone I can talk to and connect with. About a lot of subjects. Like arts, technology, games, health, fitness, philosophy and so on. I need someone with the intelligence to know when to shut the hell up and when to speak up. I need someone who knows right from wrong without me having to tell her.

Youth, fitness and beauty. Hate me all you want. But I’m not going to get attracted to an old, fat lady. Hasn’t happened so far, and isn’t likely to happen anytime soon.

A fit, young, good looking girl turns me on. Race doesn’t matter as much as other factors.

But a nice waist-to-hip ratio and nice, perk breasts do turn me on incredibly.

?Youth won’t always remain, but at least fitness and beauty can.

Character. Great! Let’s do another round of pumping and move on. If I am going to be in a long-term relationship, it’d probably be with someone who’s had no history of promiscuity.

If you are not inclined to be in a long-term relationship, who am I to tell you to have such an inclination. I’m just not going to be the idiot who buys the cow when the milk is free, so to speak.

Good financial habits.

You love those $2000 shoes you can’t afford?

Great. Good for you. Not going to be my problem, ever. I personally buy lots of expensive things, but only because I can afford them. If we ever get married, it’s going to be different, but so long as your finances are separate from mine, you are responsible for your own expenses.

And I need to know you can be trusted with your own money before I trust you with mine.

Not too career focused: This one is just for me. For marriage, I’d want someone who could stay at home and take care of the kids when she has them.

I’m way too career focused to be taking care of the kids full-time, and I’d rather not have my kids be raised by sitters and nannies. But this is just my own requirement, not everyone else’s.

Authentic: Someone I can connect with. Someone who has no problem with the truth - telling it like it is and being told the truth without qualms.

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Thank?you ...Be assertive, being a lady doesn't mean he has to do everything, a high-quality lady will initiate sometimes (if you do that you are a legend in his eyes)

If he gives you a compliment accept it, don't be like” really?”, and give him a complement back.

?Sometimes men like to hear that they are liked back, so if he was saying weird stuff or acting weird ask yourself if he may be trying to make you tell him that you like him and make sure you do.

If you do this you are automatically one of his favorite people, offer to pay the check (even if you don't end up paying and just do it every once in a while).

Tease him.

Be a high-quality woman! This lines with all of the other points above.

Learn your faults and make sure they know their faults.

If they know their main negatives and they can't get themselves to be better, don’t waste your time.

First, in your own mind, you need to know what you consider “high quality”. What does that mean to you?

What values and characteristics would you want to see in the men that you get involved with?

Generally, people are attracted to people who possess the same values as themselves.

If you are a woman who wants to be involved with successful, attractive men then, it makes sense that you must be a successful and attractive woman.

While you may not need to make the same amount of money, this man will probably look for a woman who demonstrates that she takes good care of herself and can successfully set and attain goals.

If you consider a “high quality” man is someone who puts family values first and is honest and hardworking, you will probably attract this man if you embrace and demonstrate these values and behaviors yourself.

If you are a person who values fun, recreation, good looks, and fitness, you will probably need to embody those characteristics yourself.

Obviously, the environments in which you participate will support finding the type of person you are looking for.

Want to add word or two?

Are you a person who frequents clubs in which successful people congregate?

Are you a person who attends church and family functions?

Are you a person who participates in many recreational and physical activities?

What you do and where you generally go will determine the type of people that you meet.

Most important is to take time to develop your knowledge of the person who appears to be the “high quality” person that you are seeking.

If you want to know if this person is authentically the “high quality” person that they appear to be, take time for the relationship to develop.

Your comments …?

A person who is authentically who they appear to be, will not try to rush a relationship. Most important, also, is to be authentically the person that you appear to be.

Any time you are going after something which is in a limited supply and of which there is not enough to go around for all the people who want it you are going to have to do more than “attract it”, you are going to have to get up and go out and search for it.

Then there is the question of what makes a man “high-quality” for you.

?Is it a financially successful guy or is a man who’s too focused on his career not what you want?

Some other respondents have said you should be chaste to be of interest to a man of quality, does the sort of man who would care about that strike you as desirable or insecure?

So, think about the sort of things your idea of a high-quality man would be doing, where you would be most likely to meet guys like that, then go and put yourself out there. If the guy is sought after by women you are going to have to do more than bat your eyes at him to get his attention.

You want to lure a man from the pack to determine the quality of your prey. Many men can be skittish when not surrounded by a pack of men.

You should lay out several bait traps, with one being meat, the others being tofu.

This can be difficult and involves trial and error. A weakling may sniff the meat bait before going for the tofu bait and then running back to the pack to share. These are best to be avoided.?