Where Are All The Good Men?
Cecilia Bosire, CDMP
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Nancy had always dreamt of having a large, loving family, envisioning herself surrounded by five children, laughter, and warmth.
Determined to find the right partner to build this dream with, Nancy began her journey by going on dates, hoping to meet her perfect match.
At first, Nancy was excited by the endless possibilities. She met many interesting men and enjoyed the adventure of getting to know new people. However, she wasn't very intentional about what she wanted in a man. She figured that love would find a way and that the right person would just naturally appear in her life.
Three years went by in a blur of dates, relationships that fizzled out, and countless moments of hope and disappointment. Nancy had grown weary. She found herself frequently asking, "Where are all the good men?" She felt like she was wasting time and energy, endlessly searching but never finding the one who truly matched her vision for the future.
One particularly frustrating night, after yet another failed date, Nancy decided enough was enough. She sat down with a pen and paper and began to write a list of the qualities she wanted in a man. She wrote down everything, from the significant traits like kindness, ambition, and a love for family, to the smaller details like a good sense of humor and a shared interest in hiking. She also noted the things she didn't want, such as disinterest in having a large family, dishonesty, lack of ambition, and a negative attitude.
With her list in hand, Nancy made a vow to herself: she would be ruthless in cutting off those who didn't fit her ideal man. No more wasting time on relationships that weren't going anywhere. She was clear about what she wanted, and she wouldn't settle for anything less.
Two weeks later, Nancy found herself on a date with a man named James. From the moment they met, she felt a connection. As they talked, she realized that James ticked all the boxes on her list. He was kind, ambitious, loved children, and shared her passion for hiking. Most importantly, he had a genuine warmth and a positive outlook on life.
Nancy decided to give this new approach her all. She was honest with James about her dreams and what she was looking for in a partner. To her delight, James shared similar aspirations. They both wanted a big family and a life filled with love and adventure.
Their relationship blossomed quickly and naturally. Within a year, James proposed, and Nancy said yes with tears of joy in her eyes. They got married in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by family and friends. Over the next decade, Nancy and James built the family they had always dreamed of, welcoming five wonderful children into their lives.
Now, ten years later, Nancy often reflects on her journey. She realizes that being intentional and clear about what she wanted made all the difference. By knowing her worth and not settling for less, she found the love of her life and created the family she had always dreamed of.
Where are all the good men?
Where are all the good jobs?
Where are all the good people?
Where are all the good opportunities?
As you ask these questions in vain, there are
?People getting married to good men every other Saturday
?People are signing contracts to start their dream jobs
?People surrounded by amazing supportive friends
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?People who have opportunities lined up
So why not you?
If Nancy didn’t decide on being crystal clear about what she wanted, she wouldn’t have met Steve.
If Nancy didn’t align her thoughts with actions she would still be frustrated like countless others.
She went on dates and didn’t sit at home wishing her dream man will knock on her door one day.
She was ruthless in cutting off the men who were not ideal, she didn’t waste time wishing they would change.
This thinking should be applied in all areas of your.
Think about your life:
What is it you desire?
Are you clear about it?
Do your actions align with your thoughts?
By aligning your thoughts with your actions, you can manifest the things that you want in life.
The more effort you put into aligning your mental energy with physical action, the closer you get to achieving your desire.
There is abundance of amazing men, women, dream jobs, opportunities etc
Believe that and get to work, watch the universe do its magic.
Cheers to you being one of those people who are considered lucky in this life.
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