When You’re Alone, You’re Whole

When You’re Alone, You’re Whole

tl;dr: On the value of solitude.

I heard one of those things that is obvious in hindsight.

On the Life is a Festival podcast, “Love Free From Fear” episode, the guest, Sabine Lichtenfels made a really astute observation.

She said that people can’t be full versions of themselves unless they are comfortable and at peace when in a state of solitude.

But the major point was this. Both in English and in German, the words “alone” and “allein” can be read as “all one” or “alle eine.”

If you are alone, you can be all one. If you can’t be all one when alone, you are not whole.

Especially in a world of omnipresent connectivity, spending time alone is critical.

FWIW, Nietzsche says the same.

Chase Damiano

Founder of Human at Scale | Operations Expert | Entrepreneur | Coach

4 年

Solitude and getting comfortable with oneself is no longer the default option. We must actively cultivate it. If you've ever found yourself bored and immediately default to checking your phone, consider that you may be avoiding building a relationship with yourself. Nice article, Jeremy

回复

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Jeremy Epstein的更多文章

  • Yoga and Tech

    Yoga and Tech

    They may seem totally opposite. But they have a lot in common.

  • Stealing from the Present

    Stealing from the Present

    Letting go of past regrets and emotions is a skill that can be developed. One practice is to find something that you…

  • What if this is the anomaly?

    What if this is the anomaly?

    What if quantum computing, by virtue of its reliance on probabilities instead of certainties, represents a return to a…

  • When You're the Frog

    When You're the Frog

    The frog in the boiling water metaphor rings true. People don’t notice small changes over time.

  • Bureaucratic Patience

    Bureaucratic Patience

    Bureaucracy doesn’t always work, but it works often. The challenge is that it doesn’t always work on the schedule we…

    1 条评论
  • Arrogance, Mindlessness, and Insensitivity

    Arrogance, Mindlessness, and Insensitivity

    Try as a I might, I am occasionally plagued by these three afflictions. Not necessarily simultaneously, but they do…

  • Time Travel

    Time Travel

    “The future is here, it’s just unevenly distributed,” said William Gibson. Preparing taxes and dealing with legacy…

  • Signal vs. Noise

    Signal vs. Noise

    The amount of noise in your life has 1000x in the past decade. The amount of signal has probably remained the same.

  • Time & Energy

    Time & Energy

    “I only have so much time.” “I only have so much energy.

  • Optimizing for Non-Optimization

    Optimizing for Non-Optimization

    I really enjoy optimizing. I enjoy efficiency.

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了