When you try to control everything, you enjoy nothing!

Believe me that life is beautiful and we need to enjoy life instead of controlling each and everything we come across, some things are better let gone and be bygone without even worrying about them because there are so many things in life that need no control whatsoever and they disappear on their own if you give them some time over. Life in general is enjoyable and I’m sorry to say if it’s probably your life that’s not you are in for a trouble!

And so what to do if you want to enjoy your life? Well, you live to learn from life, grow with maturity, have fun while working, persevere and do what fills your soul and fulfils your dreams! Now, how do you go about this? You face your life, take the decision to move on, and do it! Just do it without worrying too much whether it was a good decision to leave some things on their own or not.

Like a plane is delayed due to bad weather and you are going to miss your important meeting but then how much real control do you have on the right time departure of your flight? You have absolutely no control over some happenings but of course what you need to do is to inform that person whom you were supposed to meet after landing, he or she should be kept informed about the delayed flight and request for an alternate time if possible.

There are many people whose most fundamental needs are lacking, like the terminally ill or the desperately poor who obviously find it quite difficult to find happiness. Even then I personally have found people even in such condition to find happiness. A very recent case comes to mind of a young girl in her twenties that ended up as a terminal cancer patient, and her family was devastated but this young girl who was studying to be a musician was a fighter and she decided to appear for an exam of her instrumental music from the academy.

The examiner himself came over to the hospital where she was admitted to take her exams and sitting on her hospital bed this girl gave her guitar lessons and appeared for the exams there and then. Whether she passed or not is immaterial but the fact that she had the will to appear for the exam in spite of her bad health was so inspiring that the examiner who came over had tears in his eyes looking at her condition. How do you explain this phenomenon? This is what was in her control to appear for the examination but passing or not was not in her control she just decided to give it a shot and she has nothing to loose.

Everyone has problems of her or his own in their life. So please review your life, your capabilities, your passions, your abilities and find out what moves your boat and then follow it with them! The most poor, desperate, hated and misunderstood people are not physically so weak, they are morally so stronger that they take their own tough decisions of their life and don't let life take them for granted.

We can start living happy life by by smiling under any circumstances, by being helpful to others, by showing you care, showing how kind you are and what you are to them and you will come to realise people in the long run do not see your failures, the sucked up you, or your pain but they see the real person behind or in front, where you should be of those facts, and react accordingly! Taking full control of your life may not be an answer to all our problems because some things are just beyond your control, therefore let go some things and don't control everything that you come across. Relax and smile and leave some things to God to take care. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre