When you share you realise how big is happiness

We can make others happy! And every one says “There is no way to make everyone happy”. we can. Smile: Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give. Create a happier life for yourself is to make other people happier. You see it. You will feel happier when you see someone’s face lights up with joy. So how can you make someone happier? when we are in the age of kid, we don’t no the relationships, feelings, we are not familiar with any thing. But, your fathers knows everything he is struggling to see us happier( hard word, effort, many ups nd downs) the age we don’t know the happiness, but we started giving it to others.

Give someone a sincere compliment ‘today’. It can mean especially much if it’s for something that is close to the other person’s heart. Help out practically with advice. If a friend needs some help then ask someone you know who has been in that situation for advice. Bring the positivity. If you bring positivity and an open, happy and good energy into a conversation. for example then that tends to spread and the two of you or more will have happier like sharing or going out for lunch break, evening down for walk or coffee date with gf/bf.

This is most important. Give a hug. It destresses and it can disrupt negative thoughts and change someone’s mood surprisingly quickly. Use when appropriate though. And saying I /Love you (both are different based on the person) this makes them more positive and feel happy. End of every day at-least once. ( try this and get experienced the feel). Happiness is an emotion. Emotions are merely your reactions to thoughts. You cannot think for someone so you cannot make them feel anyway. You can attempt to share something with others that you have noticed people generally react positively to but that would be observational thoughts and dependent on their reactions.

And unless and until you are happy, you can't make others happy. So, start doing the things that make you happy genuinely. And your happy and smiling nature will make others happy automatically. But if talking about few points : Always have smile on your face. Give respect to everyone. Be genuine and loyal to everyone. Appreciate the things others do. People always want some praise for their work. So start giving genuine feedback to their works. Stand by their side in their worst times. Take Care for them without breaking their privacy spaces. Give Surprises or gifts (not so big, but the smaller ones will make the big difference) Celebrate their Birthdays in your own creative style and not just sending greeting cards on social media.

Well, this is what strikes on my mind, at your notion of making everyone happy or giving happiness to all! When you attempt to make someone happy, you do all that you think can make that person happy. Failed. Your idea about what would make them happy doesn't actually make them happy. You try again, now with all that the person wants to be done, to be happy with you. Failed, again. Out of 100 things done by you, 1 didn't turn out well, or according to that person’s wishes or somehow you just couldn't. Rest 99 that had been performed successfully are buried under the ground and you will be blamed for that 1 out of 100, which was unfavorable.

Net result - Unhappy people around you. Now let's see what happens to you when you set out to make others happy, You waste your time. You waste your efforts. You feel betrayed.You create complexities and find yourself in messed up situations. You feel being taken for granted. You feel frustrated. Net result- Unhappy you. And an unhappy you in turn makes others unhappy too. But wait, I still have a solution to your question. What is the best way to give happiness to all? Keep yourself happy and busy. Tie yourself to your life goals and not to other human beings and their happiness. Focus on improving yourself rather than finding faults in others. How does it help achieve happiness of all?

When you are happy and content with your life, you make less nuisance in someone else's life. When you are not frustrated, you don't need someone to let it out. When there is peace in your life, you are least bothered to interfere in other's. You can give happiness to all, not by fulfilling all their desires and expectations from you, but by avoiding things that cause discomfort and unnecessary troubles in their lives. This in my opinion is a more practical way to make others happy. Else, its better not to attempt this stunt in your life. Even expert’s guidance won't be able to save you from disaster. Cheers!