When you intentions are pure, they don't lose you, you lose them

First of all, what makes a good person? I think we can all agree that a good person is someone who doesn't do bad things. If someone commits a murder, we can agree the person is not good. But sometimes, our perception of what a good person is can be warped. For example, if I’m a feminist and you don't agree with my views, then you're not a very good person. If you used a racist term, then you are a horrible person no matter how many people you help and how many good things you do.

Once that is said, one way of looking at that quote is, ‘good people’ can develop a certain sense of arrogance after some time. I am good because I don't do bad things like the rest of you. So I'm not going to hang out with you because I'm special and I'm better than you” type of mentality. The thing with this kind of thinking is that it makes you less likely to be able to sympathise with others, because humans make lots of mistakes. It's the reason why many people can be intimidated by people who are too good. Because here is a person who has probably never killed an ant in her life. How would she react if I told her I did a terrible thing.

But no matter how good a friend is to you, if you don't fit into their perception of ‘good’, then rest assure you will lose them. Unless that friend is a particularly open minded person who isn't too rigid with their views. But even then, you will always have to maintain a certain boundary with them, hide stuff from them. When you are a good person, even if things don't work out for you with a specific person or group, you are most likely going to feel hurt a lot. But the best part is when you move forward, those people who have lost you will run after you, if not with any specific interest or for any favor, at least to get your attention and feel important. You will be amazed to see how people behave when they lose a good person.

However if somebody or some people hate you or have negative feelings of say jealousy for me when I have been good, I would love to take my chances to be bad to them because their nature is known. If you want to become good towards others, and show faith on them, they will cheat you at their full and; leave you alone at the end of the day when you are in need of them. So i want to suggest only one thing that be good at your own risk and if you are good always be prepared for the cheaters, and always be ready and strong enough to do all your works at your own and make yourself too much strong in will power that no failure can move you away from your road of sheer hard work and passion.

And one more thing that is most powerful is the almighty. and surely if you are really good person, and anyone even tries to cheat you, at any instant of your life, surely you will be ahead of him in your life and will win the rat race before him. A good person is not incapable of making mistakes and is just as able to lose people that may be beneficial to their lives as anyone else. Instead, the quote should be changed to that “a good person with intelligence doesn't lose people.” But that could be wrong too in exactly the same way. Truthfully, a good person should know when they've made a mistake and an intelligent person should know how to fix that mistake or at the very least adjust to it accordingly.Stay blessed ! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1000articles #proudtobeindian