When you ask Universe to go to next level

First of all, it is very important for us to evaluate what has happened and what we have done to deserve an unexpected abandonment of people from our life, but if we cannot find any clear reasons, stop torturing ourselves about it. Do not feel guilty when people choose to stay away from us anyway even after all necessary and proper things that we are responsible to do about the matter have been done. It may not be us, it may be them who are feeling it.

One of the reasons is that they may have woken up one day and thought of having different friend groups as comfort zones for whatever reasons. One might be to have different experiences in life. No traces of wrongdoing, hard feelings, or anything bad was done to them. We have evaluated all our conducts with them and there's not one thing that can justify their sudden leaving.

It might also be that the first experience of some friends I begin ignoring totally and they feel this being suddenly ignored by a friend was when we were just in getting to know well. Some might just ditch us as if we had said something wrong. Later though we found out that some had been held back for a year at your place for their poor performance. We believe some were actually ashamed of it and did not want anyone to know. It's a pity they turned a cold shoulder to us as we would have still been good friends with them nonetheless.

It might be also because we may have hurt them unintentionally. The casual harmless jokes or comments we make can somehow sting someone's feeling. Also, when we're with good friends, we tend not to filter what we say carefully. Since it's obvious that we mean no harm, the person who got hurt may not want to sound ridiculous using it against us and for a reason to walk away. Still, the damage is done.

And because we know too much about their personal life. Not that they think we were going to misuse the information although it's possible, but they may feel uncomfortable once they realize they have opened up more than they should. They may also worry that we may become too judgemental with the decisions they make because we think the decisions don't seem wise considering their conditions.

Nonetheless, once that separation of mind happens, the status of the person in terms of the mind and body are not the same. These people are made to redefine their life and living style. If we take this analogy, how to go about deleting a person or even the thoughts and memories of that person? There are stimuli which may be force us to do it. Internal self motivation is not depending on any external support systems of life. When we take a situation a person close to you is not there and moves to God's abode, there exits permanent void of the person in physical form. Of course initially there is great grief oh the person in physical form. Over recalling of such a soul doings take place.

But in above cases, the time is the main healer, such thoughts slowly goes to the background and one recalls one needed. In computer the key ' del' is used for this function. Please visualize how the logic works for ' del' function. It has got varied logics. It has one option ' delete permanently'. I have seen many people using this option and latter on struggling to get back what got deleted. To delete organ is more organized through medical science. Deleting person means, to erase all thoughts (read data) one has accumulated over a time period. Removing from life means one has to visualize and that such a person never entered in the earlier life so for. It is not impossible. But needs enormous self regulation.

Like amputation, just cut the person with all the associated thoughts and memories of yours together. Then like a medical doctor protects the wound around amputation through antibiotics, look for good counsellors may be some friends to lead you to occupy with noble thoughts and necessary thoughts. Once amputation area heals fully, body adjusts to new way of living, one has to reposition and realign the thoughts once a person is deleted. It is of course possible and easier if one just forgets the thoughts good or otherwise through a therapy known as mind healing.

There are some hazards of removing people from your life and also their memories from your hard disk, but there are some hidden files, erased files, recycling bin or back up files for possible data recovery and some related topics, now of course with cloud computing helps us to store data off-location of offsite, similarly we can take help from some mentor of Guru to help us tide over this situation and follow the spiritual path led by him or her. :

Always remember that it is your life, people may come and people may go, consider this life as a moving train and as some people get in some also get out. In the same way the emotions may come and emotions gets coloured and go out, the coloured vision aberrates the living and therefore just live and ignore everything , including your own existence. Be a witness to your own life and never cling on more painful to cling on. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks950articles #proudtobeindian