When things change inside, things change around you as well

I cannot change people’s perceptions. I cannot change how people perceive me. I cannot change another person’s emotions. I cannot change another person’s behavior. I cannot fix or save anyone. I cannot change the past. But I can change myself. So I decided to change myself. It is both actually what you change within yourself will change reality, for that is how powerful our God is. “The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want, he makes me lie in green pastures, he leads me besides still waters, he restores my soul, He leads me in right paths for his name's sake.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley I shall fear no evil, for thou art with me Thy rod and staff comfort, me, you you anoint my head with oil, my cup over flows, you prepare a place for me a table in the presence of my enemies, surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord, forever. Create your own reality. You get what you think about whether you want it or not. Whatever your thoughts or beliefs are, generates a vibration that attracts other vibrational matches to you. When you change your point of attraction every thing else will shift.

“Blessed is the man who remains steadfast in trail, for he when he has withstood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. Lord make me an instrument of thy peace where there is hatred let me sow love.” Through god and his will I have changed and continue to improve. I believe that the things are changing around me which eventually makes me change and adapt to the new changes.Let me tell you what I meant using a shallow example - I used to visit restaurants frequently to get myself something to eat as I am working most of the time.

It was difficult for me to manage time. I couldn't give time to my parents, friends and dear ones. Due to the pandemic, it was essential for me to learn cooking (I am proud of what I make right now. Finally I learnt to make round chapathis ) I am working as well as cooking delicious home made food. What I wanted to explain is -The situation and the circumstances put in front of me changed and eventually it was necessary for me to change myself. I don't want you to doze you off to sleep so it us better that I stop over here as if I tell you, are you going to do it?

Put the phone down after you read this. Get off the couch. Take a sheet of paper and write down top 3 things you want to have in your life. Better yet, take a cork board and pin the images of your top dreams. Every morning ask yourself what are you going to do today to get closer to your dreams. Every evening, ask yourself if you've done what you promised yourself. That's it. If you do the above, your life will change. The key to any change is action. I decided to change my story. Enough was enough. I hated the person I was seeing in the mirror. So, I decided to kill my old self.

I decided to quit bad habits like drinking alcohol, smoking weed, and swearing recklessly. I started reading books, instead of procrastinating and watching unwanted stuff. I stopped complaining and started appreciating the life God has given me. I decided to unpack myself, and live a completely different life. I decided if I was to run my life, I was too reckless I would end up destroying it. So I gave my life to God to run it for me. I stopped other people from deciding things for me. I started a new chapter of my life where I would be the only author. I embraced loneliness and started reinventing myself. I stopped giving a damn about the opinions of other people after realizing I also had something to say.

I said goodbye to people who were not adding positive energy to my life. I got rid of my TV and subscribed to YouTube channels that contributed to my personal growth. I picked one skill that I thought I would still be in love with after 25 years. I dropped all the girls I knew and married just one special person that I thought I was compatible with and we could grow together. I committed myself to one life long goal that I thought would fulfil my life and never looked back. I decided to sweat it out every day to boost my mood. I decided even if I must fail I will only fall forward. Cheers!