When talking about your past love life reveal your partner's feelings

?Do you believe that there ?isn’t anything as special as our first love? And why?

A: I repeated my lost love survey with a sample of people who have never tried reunions and just like to fill out surveys of all sorts. In age, location,?education n, etc., they matched my rekindled participants.

Of these adults, reported that they have no interest in their first loves—the romances were not good: not getting along, cheating,drug abuse ?, physical abuse, abortion, etc. Some of them wrote that they couldn't understand why anyone would want to reunite with an old flame!

?Another reported that they would like a reunion, and the rest said they weren't sure.

So first love is special only for some people.

Those people who choose reunions are a special group of people.

Rekindlers separated for situational reasons: moved away, parents disapproved, too young.

Their first romances were at younger ages than the non-rekindlers, and their initial romances lasted longer. They never finished their love.

Rekindlers grew up together and have a shared history, shared roots. They are similar in background, and they were friends years ago—a good start for any long-term romance.

?I’ve read that the connections we make with people between the ages of 18-30 are some of the strongest we make in our lives.

Is there any evidence to support this?

Yes, because of their shared history, high school students are still forming their identities, and they do so with their friends and romantic partners. And we never have as much time to put into friendships later in life as we do in high school, and maybe college.

?Can people feel resentment that they missed out on being with each other during their time apart?

Can they feel angry about having wasted their time?

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Thank you?….Many people have someone they consider their "lost love"— a person they were sure they would be with forever.

?When the life they imagined with this person is gone, it can be challenging to cope with the emotions of grief, sadness, and despair that may arise.

For most, the passage of time helps them heal, but for others, that pain seems more difficult to get rid of. Just when it seems they’ve gotten over their lost love, those feelings may come flooding back in, signaling that they were never really over them at all.

If you’re questioning whether you're over your lost love, keep an eye out for the following signs contained within this article.

Are you struggling to get over an ex?

You avoid things that remind you of your love.

Do you turn off the radio when your favorite song comes on? Avoid a parking spot because the car next to yours looks too much like theirs.

Going out of your way to avoid anything that reminds you of your lost love could be a sign that you are not over them. Being able to draw a clear line between the person you once loved and the things you love can be an important step in the process of healing.

If everything still seems too blurred to handle, you may still be in love.

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You dream of your lost love

The more someone runs through your conscious (or subconscious) thoughts, the more likely they are to show up in your dreams.

The?meaning of dreams ?is still unclear in many ways, but sometimes, they can be telling. Dreams that put you and your lost love in a situation where you can't speak to one another or hear one another may be particularly important to pay attention to.

This might mean you feel that something has been left unsaid or unfinished.

Likewise, dreams in which you and your lost love are being intimate in any way could be trying to tell you that you are still yearning for your relationship.

It is normal to dream about people who have been important to us throughout our lives, but if it seems like night after night, your lost love lingers emotionally, it could signal that something bigger is at play.

You still get jealous

Does the thought of your lost love meeting someone else make you hurt or angry?

?Is your gut reaction?jealousy ?when you see them happy without you, no matter how much time has passed?

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If so, you might be feeling this way because you still have feelings for them. While you might be convinced you only have their well-being at heart, you may be subconsciously concerned with what you have lost.

After any breakup or separation, it can be normal to feel a few twinges of jealousy now and again. Still, if these feelings do not get any easier to cope with, you may not be over this person.

You haven’t made changes since you lost them

If nothing about you has changed since you were with your lost love, it could signal that you haven’t moved on yet.

?Do you find yourself listening to the same music that you liked when you were together?

Do you frequent the places you two used to go as a couple? Do you dress a certain way still because your lost love liked that style?

An important part of getting over someone you love can be recognizing who you were when you were with them and deciding who you want to be now. For many people, a physical change in themselves or the space around them can be a helpful place to start.

If you are going out of your way to keep everything exactly as it was when your lost love was in your life, you might be holding on too tightly to the past.

You imagine your life together in love

Do you still think about what it would be like to be married to this person?

Do you have romantic daydreams about what you would be doing if you were still together?

If the story in your head always seems to come back to your lost love, your brain may be having trouble letting go of it.

Not only can this be draining and discouraging, but if all your mental energy is going to someone who is no longer a possibility, you could miss the chance to notice someone new that you are meant to be with.

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