When Storms Hit Hard: Finding Purpose, Passion and Joy Amid Life's Challenges
Sally Arkell-Boles
The Midlife Mindset Mentor ?? Helping You Reimagine Midlife: Design a Legacy of Passion, Purpose, and Prosperity ?? Speaker | ?? Podcast Host | “Design your Most Fulfilling Chapter Yet"
We knew a storm was headed our way that Friday. The forecast warned us about a system named "Depression Debby"—a name that felt oddly fitting for the emotional weight it seemed to carry. We were prepared for rain, but what came next was more than just a physical storm; it was a test of resilience and perspective.
By late afternoon, Kevin and I had planned to head out for appetizers, but a last-minute change of heart led us back to our Airbnb. Sometimes, those intuitive nudges guide us in ways we don’t fully understand until later. As we started cooking dinner—grilled steaks and chow mein, a mix of our favorite comfort foods—the storm outside intensified. What began as a trickle soon turned into a deluge, and before we knew it, a river of water was rushing down the side of the house.
The next moments were a blur of frantic activity. The shower drain overflowed, water poured into the suite, and no matter how many towels we threw down, we couldn’t keep up with the flow. We called the homeowner—only to learn she was out of province. For 25 years, her home had never flooded, and now, we were in the middle of a situation that neither she nor we were prepared for.
Her son, a house contractor, arrived as quickly as he could. Together, we scrambled to save the furniture, find more towels, and finally, locate sandbags in the shed to slow the water’s advance. Despite our best efforts, we were advised to leave and find a hotel for the night.
Imagine searching for a hotel in the middle of a storm, late at night, with roads flooded and traffic at a standstill. As we navigated the congested streets, passing by abandoned cars submerged in water, it would have been easy to give in to frustration and despair. But in that moment, a shift happened.
We began to focus on what we had rather than what we were up against. Yes, the roads were a mess, but our car was still operational. Yes, our evening plans were disrupted, but we had a warm, dry place to go. The suite we left behind was being looked after, and we were safe.
It’s during these storms—both literal and metaphorical—that we’re reminded of our power to choose how we respond. Life will throw challenges our way, some more intense than others. But each challenge carries an opportunity to shift our perspective, to find gratitude even in the smallest things, and to grow stronger in the process.
So, let me ask you: What storms are you currently facing in your life? Are there challenges that feel overwhelming, situations you can’t control, or relationships that seem to be going sideways?
The truth is, every storm presents a chance to reframe our circumstances and find meaning in the midst of chaos. By approaching these moments with gratitude and a willingness to learn, you not only weather the storm but emerge from it with a renewed sense of purpose, passion, and joy.
Don’t let life’s challenges weigh you down or keep you stuck. You deserve to live fully, embracing every experience as a stepping stone towards a more fulfilling life. If you’re ready to shift your mindset, find your true purpose, and ignite the passion that’s been waiting within you, I’m here to help.
Connect with me today and let’s work together to transform your challenges into opportunities for growth. Your best life is waiting on the other side of this storm, and I can’t wait to guide you there.
In Love and Light
Sally
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3 个月What an experience you had Sally Arkell-Boles ! How amazing you could shift your perspective of what was happening and navigate it so gracefully. I am happy to hear you are both well ??
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3 个月Love this! The way we respond to life’s storms can truly define our journey. ??? Your personal story is a great reminder that we can always choose how we face challenges. Can’t wait to read your newsletter and get some fresh perspective on turning difficulties into opportunities.?
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3 个月Sally Arkell-Boles wow what a whirlwind change of circumstances. Of course you remained calm amidst the chaos, that is one of your gifts. You are so protected and safe ?? ?
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3 个月We experienced the same storm, the same intensity of water, but luckily, our neighborhood was sparred the flooding. I am glad you made it to safe and dry quarters! I love what you wrote: ...'find meaning in the midst of chaos'. Those are the moments when we can put the practice to work and keep going, even if the outer circumstances are not at all pleasant!
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3 个月Let me know in the comments about a storm you have recently had to navigate. Sharing your story will empower others to find the joy in the journey!