When some one helps you even when he or she is struggling that is love

If someone helps me when they are struggling, I have to ask myself first of all, why I would accept their help. Why wouldn’t I go to another person or try to help myself? And if someone helps me when they are struggling and they have children, in my opinion, that is irresponsible and child abuse. Because that person’s children should be the first priority. Love to me, is more the ability of one who needs help to say no to someone who offers when they are struggling. It’s the ability to care about that person enough NOT TO WANT to take advantage of them when they are down.

Love to me is being a soft shoulder to air your concerns, even when you can’t help. But trying to help that person find every available resource that can help them help themselves so they don’t have to rely on others. Each one of us may have a different definition for this word. I shall focus on the question itself to explain my perception of the most sacred emotion, love. So, when one helps another during a rough period despite being stuck in storm is a clear portrayal of giving without “expecting” the other person to help you get out of your struggle in return.

There is no barter system happening here. That is what love is about. This emotion is an amalgamation of care, understanding, honesty and giving without any attached expectations. However, it’s more of an attitude, kind of like a haze that radiates from you. Unconditional. It’s not first and foremost something aimed at someone in particular, but generally, constantly. Not sure though. Oh also, it’s about having time and attention, openness, properly listening to people, giving them space to be themselves. An openness/awareness persists between two people who vibe well together.

For example when I was being in love with someone, I just loved that person with all my heart, the feeling of love was immense no doubt and I just thought this is love but I was wrong until I actually started loving someone. But when I was being in love with someone and things didn’t worked out between us I was definitely sad and devastated I took a lot a lot of time but eventually I could move on in life and forget about them which means I didn’t actually loved them.

But, when I actually started loving someone the feeling was completely different when I realized my real feelings I got this adrenaline rush, I couldn’t breathe , I was flooded with the emotion of love I could feel the vibes the love coming from within me like my soul , like I found my soulmate and the moment I talked to that person I was all calm inside.

When I actually started loving someone nothing mattered to me , I am a very practical person in life, but then when you start loving you can’t really be calculative or practical and if you really are then you are just being in love with someone not loving someone. Loving someone you would want to see that person grow, be happy always and be free, you can never stop loving that person till your last breath even if you don’t end up with them. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1000articles #proudtobeindian