When problems come don't bang your head

Thinking about life when we encounter problems we are faced with a question how to tackle them. But before that lets understand the meaning of life first. Close your eyes and put your hands on your ears, can you feel your existence? That’s what life is. But above in your question you’re talking about the environment in which you live. How many times do you sit and observe your life i.e., the environment in which you live?

Now what does this word life involves? It varies in case of each one of us. For you it’s different and for me it’s different. So, obviously the only person who can and who only will need to find the key to solve all the problems is you.

And like for instance my life involves studies, few most important people with whom I have to deal on daily basis, gym and few electronic devices. Now see these are not the only things in my life but are the things that form a large part of my day and are also material in nature. I keep a register to record material facts for each one of them. You have to create a balance between all of them using tools like patience, intelligence, control over emotions, positive attitude, questioning, etc.

But each one of them is very important like career is very important, it gives you a living, reputation, satisfaction, etc. Relations are very important, you know a research was conducted in Harvard, where they tracked few people for 80 years and concluded those who had good relations with people around them, lived their life happily as compared to others. If we talk about the next, which is health, you tell me how much knowledge of nutrition, food addiction and exercises is required to keep your body fit? A lot! Right? Then why don’t you maintain a register to note down important rules and tips for health.

Moreover, the next is Mobile Phone, this is one of the most complexed part to break down and to understand. Mobile Phone is so dangerous that it can destroy your life easily. We all are addicted to mobile phone now a days, Right? But its just a combination of hardware and software, you need to be more precise that I am addicted to some virtual girl or boy or some game or etc in order to find the correct solution and also the meaning of addiction, feelings and emotions.

There is nothing like negative or positive phases in life. Every phase of your life has same importance in your life. Still your questions is quite good! When do you call it a negative phase of your life, it means that you are suffering from a problem or you don't like the the situation in which you are or something else which you don't want to be happened with you.

Also I don't care whether you believe in God or not, you must admit that there is something that gives your life directions from you birth. See, your life has been decided to a certain extent when you are born. You can call it your destiny. Yet I believe that, God or whatever it is, has given us freedom to decide that what you want to do in your life.

You are allowed to dream. You are allowed to do your best to fulfill your dream. Always keep mind that God also want something from you to be done on earth. The life is the perfect combination of the your efforts to fulfill your dream & your destiny (work expected to be done by you). So you can't do anything with your destiny.

As your life is going according to the combination of you efforts & destiny, if you are not going on the path of life as you think than there must be some problems with your efforts or god wants some more from you. You may not be mature enough to fulfill your dream. So think that God has put me in this situation, so there must be a reason for this.

“When you win you learn nothing but when you lose you learn many things”. This phase is the learning phase of life. Try to learn as much as you can from this phase. Once you will learn everything what is needed for your dream, you will automatically be in the situation where your dream is in front of you. 

You should always have equilibrium between the work done by you & the work to be done by God. Whenever you feel that nothing is going in life as you want just try to do the best you can, put belief in God & try to learn as much as you can from the situation. Once you will be able to get this type of attitude in life you will never feel that you are in negative phase of life and if you will be in struggling period, you will be brave enough to come out of the situation & become more stronger than you were before. This is the simple philosophy of life in which I believe. Cheers!