When People Come Into Your Life
How often have you heard this term? While it is true that a person’s presence in your life is for a specific length of time; the most important questions are:
- What is my role in this relationship?
- What life lesson is being presented to me?
- How can I use the lesson (s) to continue in moving forward?
If you notice, these questions are focused on you and your responsibility. To often many believe that when someone comes into their life; it is the responsibility of the other individual to do ALLL THE WORK, while you set back and do little to nothing. And as a result; many individuals find themselves left behind and wandering in an endless circle of regret, despair or depression; which can bring about a downward spiraling emotional and spiritual death; not to mention possible physical health issues.
It’s imperative to note; your existence in happiness, love, joy, peace, prosperity, oneness and hope lies within. It is never anyone’s responsibility to ignite these gifts in you. However, if you are inspired by some to move forward, that’s just the icing on the cake. Everything you need to be successful was given to you at birth. Think about it you were actually born with a multitude of gifts to successfully navigate you thru the entity of LIFE. When people come into your life their only job is to enhance and encourage you as YOU NAVIGATE YOUR LIFE IN THESE AREAS. And if they don’t the chess piece yet remains in your court to move; checkmate.
So in conclusion, instead of waiting for people to come into your life and do the work;
Close your eyes
Take a deep breath
Honestly self-reflect you as an individual
And begin the inner work of moving forward
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