When #ParentalLeave means no bonus ??

When #ParentalLeave means no bonus ??

It seems like just yesterday I was turning on my maternity leave out of office.?

And now - my baby is double digits?-?Hugo is now 10 months old????

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I took 12 weeks of (self-funded) maternity leave when he was born.?And for the most part, it was great. No doubt in large part?because I'm self employed and can choose my schedule.

But sadly,?I’ve been hearing from folks a?LOT?lately with?horrendous?parental leave expenses.?

This week alone, from people in the PepTalkHer Community I’ve heard stories like this:


  • “I took 5 months parental leave.??On my return I was told I didn’t qualify for a performance review because I’d been?‘off work.’? So I didn’t get to discuss my bonus, pay?or professional development plan”


  • “I took the full paid leave?entitlement to care for our daughter while my wife went back to work.?When I came back, I’d been iced out of the leadership team.? It was like a great policy existed - sure - but?men weren’t actually supposed to access it.”


  • “I was the top performing member of our sales team.?But, because I took maternity leave, was told?I didn’t qualify for my bonus.?My male colleagues who took parental leave were paid their full bonus - no questions asked.”


Shocking right??

But also.... are we?really?surprised?

These are not isolated or unusual experiences.

We just rarely hear these stories publicly because folks on #paidfamilyleave are often those who can least afford to risk speaking out.


I'd love to hear from?you.?How was your #parentalleave experience?

Comment below or send me a DM to let me know off the record.

Equally, if you had an AWESOME parental leave experience, I'd love to hear about that too - comment and lmk. a

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And speaking of speaking up and out about poor behavior in the workplace, I'm hosting a Q&A this week with the fab author and speech coach Samara Bay.

We'll be talking about:

  • Having #courageousconversations at work - even when there's a lot at stake.
  • Learning to?*actually* love your voice
  • And how to redefine what power and authority can sound like

It's this Wednesday 12 April at 6pm EST (Thursday morning in Australia)??

Click here to register!

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And my friend Doone Roisin founder of?Female Startup Club?and I are partnering with the brilliant?Cubicle to CEO?founder Ellen for a SIDE HUSTLE CURIOUS workshop where we'll share:

??How we made our first $1000

??Who you should take side hustle advice from (and who to ignore)

??How to find your hype crew of like-minded folks also wanting to chart their own career course


When:?

??April 13th, 4pm PST / 7pm ET (or Friday 9am if AEDT)


RSVP here:?

??https://lnkd.in/e2hVCTJC?


Hope you're coping better with the Easter induced chocolate coma than I am!


Meggie

Candice de Beer

Marketing & Business Advisor ?? I help business owners identify the gaps in their marketing strategy & plug those holes to scale ?? Content creation, Digital Strategy, Analytics, Marketing Message, Tools, Team

1 年

I wish this got greater reach. Too often women are penalised for having children. And yet, I had a manager say to me I achieved more in the 5 hours I worked on returning back to the office, than most people did in their 8 hours.

CHESTER SWANSON SR.

Next Trend Realty LLC./wwwHar.com/Chester-Swanson/agent_cbswan

1 年

Thanks for Posting.

Sally Sloley

Agile Coach | Lean Agile Visual Management (LAVM) Specialist | Kanban Trainer

1 年

Being pregnant and becoming a mom as a perm is the reason I became a contractor and why I’ve stayed a contractor

Yangbo Du

Entrepreneur, Social Business Architect, Connector, Convener, Facilitator - Innovation, Global Development, Sustainability

1 年

Might the persistence of remote and hybrid work trends pose opportunities to overhaul leave policies, Meggie? As far as my team members behind remote-native INNOVO are concerned, one simply announces leave and takes it -- no questions asked, especially if family is involved (to be fair, we are overwhelmingly a self-selected bunch who are entrepreneurial yet prefer working within a much larger team environment).

chandrakant patil

Public Relations Communications Specialist at RBP

1 年

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