When Father's Day Hurts...

Dear Giving Grief a Voice Community,

As we approach Father's Day, I want to take a moment to acknowledge the pain and complexity that this day can bring. For those who have lost your father or Dad's who have lost a child/children, this day can be particularly difficult. I want you to know that it's okay to feel however you feel, and it's okay not to celebrate if that's what your heart tells you. It's also okay to celebrate despite your loss. But more than anything, please take care of yourselves and surround yourself with people who care about you.

I also want to acknowledge those who may have complicated relationships with their fathers. Some may be estranged, others may be deployed or in prison, or just not able to celebrate with you for whatever reason. Please know that it's okay to feel what you feel, and to allow yourself to process those emotions.

And if none of these scenarios apply to you, but you know someone who might be struggling, please share this newsletter with them. Sometimes just knowing that you're not alone can make all the difference.

For those children who are coping with emotionally detached or abusive fathers, please know that we see you and we support you. This is a time to offer love and support, to create a safe space where they can express their emotions and feel heard.

Please remember that no matter what your situation, you're not alone. The Giving Grief a Voice community is here for you. If you need someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out to me by replying to this email.?

From my heart to yours,

Darlene