When Executive Coaching Does NOT Work

When Executive Coaching Does NOT Work

In the world of executive coaching, we often celebrate the transformative successes, yet it's equally important to acknowledge that sometimes coaching doesn't yield the desired results. The truth is that coaching is not a one-size-fits-all solution. There are specific conditions under which coaching thrives, and conversely, scenarios where it falls short. In this article, you will learn the common pitfalls and misconceptions that can derail the coaching process.

Join me as we look into the nuances of executive coaching and learn how to recognize when it may not be the right tool for change:


  1. Lack of Commitment: When the executive being coached is not genuinely committed to changing their behavior.
  2. Wrong Background: If the issues are not behavioral but rather technical, functional, or intellectual, such as not being up-to-date with medical technology or lacking specific professional skills.
  3. Ethics Violations: Coaching is not appropriate for ethical or integrity issues. If an executive has committed an integrity violation, they should be fired, not coached.
  4. Wrong Mission: When the executive and the organization are going in different directions, or if the executive is on the wrong path, coaching will not correct the strategic misalignment.
  5. Written Off by the Company: If the company has already decided to let the executive go and is using coaching as a facade for a "seek and destroy" mission, the coaching process will not be successful.
  6. Wrong Role or Direction: Sometimes an executive is simply in the wrong role or career that does not align with their strengths or passions, and coaching cannot fix a fundamental mismatch.


In conclusion, executive coaching is a powerful avenue for leadership development, yet it is not without its limitations. We have explored various scenarios where coaching may not yield the expected outcomes, such as a lack of commitment from the coachee, misalignment with organizational goals, and the presence of integrity violations. It is essential for both coaches and clients to recognize these boundaries to ensure that coaching is not misapplied. True growth through coaching requires a conducive environment, one where the individual is open to change, supported by their organization, and where coaching is used as a tool for behavioral enhancement rather than a fix-all solution.

As we close, let us remember that coaching is a partnership aimed at unlocking potential, not a guaranteed solution for every challenge. For those considering coaching, this reflection serves as a reminder to approach the process with realistic expectations, a clear understanding of its purpose, and a commitment to the hard work required for genuine change. When these elements align, executive coaching can be an incredibly effective catalyst for personal and professional transformation.

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Dr. Manar Agha Al-Nimer

Chief Executive Officer | Doctor of Philosophy (Ph.D.)

4 个月

Thank you for bringing attention to these scenarios, Brandon. I like to think of coaching as like a hammer. It's undeniably useful for many tasks, but it cannot fix everything. In some cases, a hammer won't be useful or may only make the problem worse. The same is true for coaching.

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Murray Gray

Supporting HR professionals to onboard, train, retain & upskill great people. Cofounder of Engagify.io & Xperiencify.com – we understand what makes people engage & actually learn.

5 个月

Brandon, thanks for sharing!

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Group Captain Sandip Sarkar

Purpose & Leadership Coach (ICF- PCC) | Certified Deep Transformational Coach | Leadership & Transformation Facilitator | Operations Strategy Expert | LinkedIn Top Voice

5 个月

Very well articulated Brandon James Mergard - Marshall Goldsmith Coaching...loved it and I resonate...

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Rebecca Collins

Doctoral Candidate, Coach, OD Consultant, Founder & Director at Chapel House Training and Consultancy Ltd.

5 个月

Really interesting article Brandon James Mergard - Marshall Goldsmith Coaching thank you! Whilst I would agree in principle with your points I also believe that sometimes coaching can be effective at points 4, & 6 dependent on circumstance. For 4 and 6 coaching can help the executive to see they are misaligned to mission or role which can empower them to make their own decision to follow a different path. Reading 5 made me cringe and is a nightmare for a coach and one of those spaces where we so often end up feeling we’re coaching to an unspoken agenda - it may not start that way but the spidey senses soon start to tingle and diffficult conversations have to be had with the commissioner / sponsor team.

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Kevin Totterdell

EMCC Executive Coach/Mentor, Board advisor, Founder, Institute of Directors Ireland. Passionate about people, strategy, culture , leadership, imposter syndrome, stress, conflict, family business dynamics

5 个月

Great article! It's a crucial reminder that the coach plays a significant role in ensuring the coaching engagement is well-aligned and not just a hopeful attempt to fix the leadership crisis without a deeper understanding of how they got to this point.

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