What's LOVE Got to "Do" with it? {49}
Valerie Miller
Two Time Self-Published Author | I Introduce You To Yourself ?? | Conscious Lifestyle Strategist?? | Public Speaker | Interior Design Consultant
December 4, 2020
Dear Sparrow,
There comes a time in life when we opt to choose to love naked. Hummm, you may wonder, what do I mean when saying love naked? It's loving whole, loving without judgement, and loving unconditionally. Once upon a time, I believed I was loving completely both platonically and romantically; however, learning over time there were times that revealed I loved conditionally with some individuals that had entered and exited my life.
Love actually looks differently for each of us due to experiences, life dynamics, etc.; therefore, to you loving naked will differ from what I may feel and view it to be. In any event, I love naked because I choose to accept individuals for who they are, they’re imperfections, their flaws, their bruises, their heartbreaks … everything. No judgement, because of who they are, and when you can love someone naked clearly seeing them intentionally, you can really love whole and complete. You love unconditionally; it’s a display that’s authentic and true, transparent and ideal.
Something we all want.
Someone who can respect us and accept us for who we are. Someone not focused on changing us nor wanting us to be someone we are not, but someone that can love us so that to the point of making it easy for us to give ourselves permission to be who we sincerely, and freely without facades, without shame, without embarrassment. However, boldly and proudly being me, being you and being who they are happily and full of joy.
Sparrow, it's beneficial in all areas of life when learning to love naked. It changes the dynamic of you and you attract all of those warranting to receive the love you have to give, because you’re in the place to accept the love that’s extended to you fully as well that's inviting you into their lives as you’re in position to include them in yours.
It’s never asking too much when you have a flame of love that’s fiery and burning inside of you and you’re longing for someone who can be in the midst of it with you, because he or she can and have chosen to take the heat, and whatever else that comes along with in the relationship, because through it all they see you and choose you. They understand you. They love you, because of you being who you are authentically.
Love naked, period.
When you love naked its truly when you’re obeying God, right? The pure essence of unconditional love.
Grace & Gratitude!
Valerie Miller