What is your relationship with Success?

Imagine success is a person standing in front of you. How do you look at it? How do you feel about it? How will you treat it?

I will tell you what most people do.

Some are afraid of success. They see it right there waiting for them and they run away. They can’t believe it is THAT easy for them to just experience it. They shut down. They blame themselves and others. They become unavailable for success.

Some people lust after it. They run after success. Imagine if someone ran after you. Imagine they just want you in their life without even getting to know you. How would you feel? Chances are you would call that person crazy and desperate. Some people become desperate.

Some people treat it like a fling. They love the idea of it. They love how success makes then feel and they want to revel in that “oh so high” feeling but its short term. They see that it requires commitment and they get afraid. They get afraid of commitment. These people are dreamers and they would dream about their “fling with success” but would never commit enough for it to come to them.

This one’s my favorite- Some people threaten success. Imagine someone telling you-“If you don’t come to me, I will jump off the building” or “If you don’t be my friend, I will stop being nice to everyone” These people believe that they are entitled to success and if it doesn’t come instantly- they will stop working, give up or worse- start threatening their own goals. They never really travel enough and give up too easy.

I have spoken to all of these people in my coaching calls. None of them had a good “relationship” with success. They just wanted it without understanding or getting to know it.

You don’t “get” success, you form a relationship with it. And relationships take time, compassion, patience and understanding.

And remember- someone who doesn’t have a great relationship with themselves will never have a great relationship with success.

All of my clients experience an exponential change in their life while working with me and I always ask them- “How has your relationship with yourself been lately” and the answer is always- Amazing. Your relationship with success is directly proportional to your relationship with yourself.

Sit down today, write about what kind of relationship are you looking to build with YOUR success. Then reflect on your relationship with yourself. You will find something magical-I promise.

Love, Riyanshi

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I coach people around Confidence and help them see their potential they haven't discovered yet.

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