What is Your Enough Number

What is Your Enough Number

I had a hard time with this concept when I first heard it.

I didn’t know how to calculate a number that would feel like enough in my business.

It was an internal issue. No amount of money will ever feel like "enough" if you don’t feel worthy without it.

Society often measures success by financial milestones.

We grow up believing that the more we earn, the more valuable we are.?

That’s why so many high-earning entrepreneurs and professionals still feel stressed, unfulfilled, and lost.?

  • They achieve financial goals, but the satisfaction never lasts.?
  • They keep chasing "more," hoping it will finally bring peace, but the cycle never ends.?

Why? Because money isn’t the problem—our beliefs about it are.


The Danger of "Self-Worth = Net Worth" Mindset

Have you ever thought: “Once I hit six figures, I’ll finally feel successful”? Then you hit that milestone—and the goalpost moved.

Now I need seven figures. Now I need more investments. Now I need… something else.?

The validation we seek in external success is always fleeting.

If your sense of worth is tied to money, your self-esteem will rise and fall with your financial status.?

This means you’re never truly free, no matter how much you earn.

Real success comes from detaching your identity from your income and defining success on your own terms.


This Financial Self-Worth Cycle Is Easy To Miss

If your self-worth is tied to money, the pressure doesn’t just push you to earn more—it can also lead to spending in ways that reinforce the same cycle.

Ever made an impulsive purchase to feel better? Bought something luxurious just to prove to yourself (or others) that you’ve "made it"?

Spending as a way to validate success often leads to more stress—because the relief is temporary.

So how do you break free?

?? Pause before you purchase.

Next time you’re about to buy something, ask yourself: Am I getting this because I actually want it or need it, or because someone expects me to have this?

That split-second of honesty can reveal whether the purchase is about joy, necessity or just proving something.

?? Disrupt the cycle.

Pay attention to what actually makes you feel alive, at peace, or genuinely happy—then make room for more of it.

If deep conversations energize you, schedule more of them.

If slow mornings bring you joy, protect that time.

??Stop delaying what truly matters.?

??Make your work and giving more meaningful.


From Chasing Money to Making Aligned Decisions

When you admit to yourself that you’ve been chasing money and decide to stop, something powerful happens: you start making choices from alignment rather than fear of losing it.

Instead of saying “How much money will this make me?” you ask “Does this align with my values, my vision, my purpose?”

The most successful and fulfilled people aren’t those with the highest bank balances—they’re the ones who’ve broken free from the need to prove themselves.

They create profit not out of fear but from a place of abundance and confidence in who they are.


Here is a special invitation to join me LIVE for the shift you’ve been looking for

At our March 18 session, we’re diving deep into this conversation.

We’ll explore:?

?? How to shift your mindset and separate self-worth from net worth?

?? The emotional traps that keep high earners feeling unfulfilled?

?? How to build financial success that actually feels good


This isn’t just another money mindset chat—it’s the breakthrough you didn’t know you needed. And trust me, you’ll want to be there live. No newsletter tip can replace the clarity and transformation you’ll get in real time.


Money Anxiety Is a Choice! Attend our exclusive session on March 18th to rewire your brain for profit & peace. Release stress, make better financial decisions, and build real success—without burnout. ?? https://sevenfigureprofits.com/moneyanxiety/


Jesus Gonzalez

Executive Assistant

1 周

Renèe Hughes This reflection on detaching self-worth from net worth is so powerful! Aligning financial decisions with personal values fosters true fulfillment. How do you guide others to disrupt this cycle effectively?

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Amy Robinson

Aromapsychologist | Intuitive Executive Coach | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Specialist | Empowering Leaders & Women to Thrive

2 周

My current inner dialog right now ?? Love this so much, Renèe! When I started coaching, I leaped into 6-figures quickly before my mind could register what was really happening and there was a lot of fear lurking in the dark crevices that I didn't realize would eventually impact me. In that rebuilding and redeveloping stage now. Love reading your posts! Thank you!

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Jeanette Farrar

Helping High Level Women Break the Proving Loop, Command Influence & Lock in Power Moves - Without Shrinking, Settling, or Burning Out.

2 周

It’s an inside job. Fix the identity.

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Heather Ioerger

VA Agency Owner | Business Process & Systems Expert | Fueled by ?? sunshine & ?? smiles

3 周

Such an important perspective! So many business owners chase revenue goals without defining what ‘enough’ truly looks like for them. Success isn’t just about numbers—it’s about alignment, sustainability, and building a business that supports the life you actually want. Excited to dive into this!

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Amanda Nowak

Founder at Element Eight | Helping Entrepreneurs Design a Business & Life That Feels as Good as It Looks

3 周

Alignment is HUGE! Thanks for this??

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