What is your asking threshold?
Mara McCann
Creator + Innovator + Producer ?? ? Founder Zhive Media ? ?? I match investors to media ?
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We all have a threshold of where we go past what we are willing to put up with today.??I have learned that?I have an ask for help threshold,?and knowing that is one of the skills behind my?rapid networking build, rapid growth of Zhive, and why?we are getting films made and funded today.??(literally right now, distribution agreements coming in)
If it's on today's list of problems to solve, or a new issue comes up, I?solve that in the same day.??If it's a partner, a team member, a new lead I need -?I solve as many issues that I can in the same day they arise, and those are the calls that go on my calendar first.
here's my methodology:
If there's an issue, that I can't solve by myself:
1.??I try to solve everything I can?same day?the new issue/ task / need / goals arise, by simply getting on a phone call with my main team.
2.??If the ask that I need is outside of my close-in house team, then that's an email to get a phone call and that has to happen?within 3 days.
3.??If its a brainstorming meeting we have to do with a larger team, I get that in the calendar?within 7 days.
4.? ?If I have a problem I don't know how to solve, or there are new issues that I know are coming up-?I make time every week to seek out new relationships, so I never get stuck in the same place twice.
the art of knowing your threshold to deal with problems on your own?is fascinating and worth the investigation.? ?I ask myself daily, "what is troubling me, and who can help me solve this so I can get to where I want to go faster."
I hear a lot of talk, about "work smarter and not harder."??Theres only way one to do that in the film business- know who your allies are who will come to help you solve problems.
If there is a problem you are sitting on, and don't know how to solve, and it's been on your lap for more than 30 days,?that's a much bigger problem.
it means:??You don't know who to ask for help.
That's why I've started offering my network?and sharing it with you.
Know when it's time to go outside of what and who you know and get more help.
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The riskiest thing I ever do, is come in with my own ignorance and go into learn as much as I can so I never sit on the same problem for more than 7 days.??That's my max threshold.
Want to see your career move faster???Solve problems faster by asking for help and getting the meetings you need to build your network of advocates.
If you are still reading---??I'm going to send out a link later this week for "reboot' calls.??if you have been sitting in my zoom, or linkedin contacts and want to understand how I help people and if my network is a fit for you, I'll blast you a 'reboot' call link.
or just DM me on linkedin with "reboot' and I will start chatting with you.
Sending warmth to everyone!
Mara
Creator + Producer + Entrepreneur
Founder Zhive Media
Advisor SXSW
radically always on the phone with people who really want to do the work.
I will help you or your businesses elevate to the next level in your personal & professional development like no one else. Specialising in #leadership #authenticity #values #confidence #boundaries #empowerment
5 个月Love this, thank you for sharing!
Wrangler of words, checker of facts, writer of true stories
7 个月Mara, you're so inspirational. Reading this has given me a breakthrough insight into a problem I've been puzzling over on and off for a year now: how to get a necessary task done by myself. And you've made me realize that I don't need to do it all myself! I simply need to ask a friend to help with the aspect that's been hanging me up, and I can do the rest. You're so good at cutting through to the heart of the issue. Looking forward to more insights and inspiration in the Friday zoom sessions
Screenwriter, ScriptWorks Boston
7 个月Your article “The Ask” poses such an important question. What stalls us from moving forward and taking the next step and how to figure that out. ?What a can-do attitude. Thank you for clarifying the process.
Academic Success Author / Actor
7 个月Very informative. Thank you Mara!??
Producer, Ultra Runner, Rebel With a Cause
7 个月I'll ask for what I want as soon as I want it!