What if You Knew the Change You Wanted Would Happen if You Decided to Change?

We all love to feel comfortable, don’t we? Comfort gives us that sense of security and predictability. But here’s the thing—when we’re too comfortable, we stop growing. And when life challenges us or pushes us out of our comfort zones, our instinct is to cling to what feels safe.

But sometimes, to create something better for ourselves, we have to embrace change—even when it’s uncomfortable. The growth we’re looking for often requires us to let go of what’s familiar and step into something new.

One Thought to Keep in Mind

Change isn’t just inevitable—it’s essential. As leaders, parents, partners, and human beings, we’re constantly evolving. The version of you that got you here may not be the version that will take you where you want to go. Change doesn’t mean you’re losing yourself; it means you’re growing into who you’re meant to be.

Two Strategies to Help You Focus on Positive Change

1. Stop Seeing Discomfort as the Enemy

Growth isn’t supposed to feel easy. Discomfort is a sign that you’re stretching yourself, learning, and becoming better. Instead of avoiding it, lean in. Ask yourself, “What is this teaching me?” You’ll be surprised how much progress you can make when you stop fighting the process.

2. Start Small and Stay Consistent

Change doesn’t have to be dramatic to be meaningful. Focus on one thing you can do today that aligns with where you want to go. Maybe it’s setting a boundary, having an honest conversation, or taking the first step toward a new habit. Small, consistent actions are what create lasting change.

One Question to Reflect On

What part of your comfort zone is no longer serving you?

Action Step

This week, choose one thing in your life or leadership that you’ve been resisting. Take one small, intentional step toward change—whether it’s big or small. The hardest part is deciding to start, so don’t overthink it. Just take the step and see what happens.

Final Thoughts

Change can feel hard, but it’s often the doorway to something amazing. The key is to focus less on the discomfort and more on the growth that’s waiting on the other side. Remember, the life and success you’re striving for aren’t as far away as they seem—it all starts with deciding to take the first step.

Until we meet again: Be a Leader. Be a Learner. Be Kind.

Dr. Roy Bishop, Jr.?

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