What if... You Couldn't Lose

Have you ever had one of those moments where everything seems to be going wrong, and you find yourself at the bottom of the scoreboard? I recently experienced such a day when I went bowling with family and friends. Little did I know that this seemingly disastrous start would lead to a revelation that could change the way we approach life itself.

The Gutter Dilemma:

In the first game, my focus was solely on avoiding the gutter. I was so preoccupied with the fear of failure that it consumed me, and my score reflected my apprehension. With a grand total of 50 points, I was undeniably the loser of the game. Desperate for improvement, someone even took a turn for me, but the outcome remained the same.

The Genius Plan:

As we prepared for the second game, I decided to shake things up. I proposed a rule that the loser could have the bumpers down. It was a spontaneous decision, but little did I know, it would be a game-changer. Suddenly, with the safety net of the bumpers, my approach transformed. The fear of the gutter vanished, and my focus shifted towards the line I wanted the ball to take.

A Shift in Perspective:

Without the constant worry about what could go wrong, I found myself liberated to concentrate on what I wanted. The game became a metaphor for life – when we focus on our goals, stop worrying about external judgments, and eliminate the fear of failure, remarkable things can happen.

From 50 to 134 Points:

The results were astonishing. In the second game, I scored a spare on my first go, and instead of getting worse as the game progressed, I improved. With 134 points, three strikes, and two spares, I not only redeemed myself but found my name on the leaderboard for the most strikes scored in a game. It was a moment of triumph and a testament to the power of a shifted mindset.

Applying the Lesson to Life:

This bowling experience got me thinking – what if we approached life with the same mindset? What if we focused solely on what we want, stopped worrying about what others think, and embraced the idea that there is no chance of failure, only a chance of learning? The fear of getting it wrong would dissipate, paving the way for a more positive and fulfilling life.

Life, like bowling, is filled with challenges and uncertainties. However, by shifting our perspective, focusing on our goals, and letting go of the fear of failure, we can turn what seems like a disastrous start into a triumphant finish. What if... you couldn't lose? Maybe it's time to find out by embracing a mindset that prioritises what you want and leaves behind the fear of what could go wrong.