What We Fail To Remember
Brent Barootes
Author at Reality Check - Straight Talk About Sponsorship Marketing
I find it funny how our minds fail to retain information. Or even sometimes we convince ourselves of something that is not true. A few years back my daughter was taking driving lessons to get her driver’s licence. She had a book to review and one on one driver training with a certified instructor. She was being taught the right way in my mind. With an industry professional. She was learning what is right and wrong. What you can and cannot do and why!
But between those driving lessons, she needed to practice. So, I drove with her often during that period. (I was home, and it was COVID or just post COVID.) Several times I would tell her to do something or tell her what she did was wrong. I would pontificate that I had been driving for over 40 years and knew the rules of the road. Just about every time she pushed back. “No dad, I can cross a single white line, it is a double line I cannot turn left across” or such things. And of course, she was right. I had to tell her so. Helping my daughter with her driving training was an opportunity to “retrain” myself on my driving habits. Over 40+ years I had forgotten things or misconstrued things. This experience over a year or so with her was like retraining.
I got to thinking about that recently. So many of us in the sponsorship industry have been in it a long time. Some like me, for almost 35 years, but even for others who have been in it for 5-10 years, in my opinion, have assumed bad habits. We have learned to cut corners (like the “rolling stop” at a four way stop intersection) and even in some cases have convinced ourselves of things that might not really be true.
As I thought about this, I chatted with a couple of people by phone about it when I had some downtime. We all agreed we were culprits… and agreed many others are too, even if they don’t admit it. We came up with what we called the “Top 4 Myths We Believe Because We Think We Know Better” list!!! There were many more, but here are our “top four”:
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Hopefully this “ride along” on a driver training expedition will help you to open your eyes about what corners you might be cutting either because you believe in the myths you are feeding yourself (or others are feeding you) or because you just want to get from point A to point B faster than you realistically should and are willing to endanger others to get there in your shortened timeline. Truly we all know better… we probably just need another voice to educate us or remind us… like my daughter did with my driving habits “knowledge”.