What It Takes To Move The World: 5 Traits of Moral Leaders
A young woman recently reminded me that I had told her a few years ago that the world wanted her to lead. She said she’d thought about that statement a long time: the idea of leadership felt uncomfortable, overly demanding, even a little arrogant or ostentatious.
“Sure,” she said, “I crave a life of purpose?—?but does that mean I have to be a leader?”
Maybe the language is off-putting at a time when we see too many “leaders” grasping for celebrity and power, using divisive language and preying on fear and insecurities rather than encouraging our better selves. At the same time, we cannot wait for leaders to save us.
Maybe it’s time to admit that we are the leaders we are waiting for.
What if we shift from putting pressure on ourselves to lead to embracing the idea that each of us should cultivate leadership qualities that would enable us to contribute to healing the world’s broken heart? To live that way requires a moral compass, a grounding in the world as it is but also a vivid imagining of the world that can be. It requires living for something bigger than yourself and holding values in tension: accepting that human truth is rarely black and white. It means navigating seas of grey.
Moral leaders possess at least five key characteristics that enable them to be effective in a complex world. They tend to:
1) Commit to something bigger than themselves. As the world becomes more globally interconnected, choices expand, sometimes exponentially. It is not unusual for individuals to just drift along and end up with a lot of options, but not a lot of meaning. Those who make a commitment to an idea or to a community ironically find a sense of freedom. Archimedes famously said, “Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I will move the world.” When people make a commitment, solutions reveal themselves. As in Rilke’s notion of living the questions, making a commitment to something bigger than oneself enables a life of seeking and, ultimately, of living oneself into what it means to lead on behalf of others in ways that harness human capabilities?—?and thus, possibilities.
2) Cultivate moral imagination. It starts with the art of listening?—?the ability to put yourself into another’s shoes and build solutions from their perspective. Listening itself can be an act of generosity. You learn to communicate across lines of difference, and in the process, you develop a sense of your own identity as well as that of those around you. This entails work, to reflect on how you see yourself and also how others perceive you.You start to recognize the biases you hold that stop you from knowing others for their full humanity. Along the way, you develop the vision to imagine the world as it could be.
Think about Martin Luther King, Jr. in the 1960s as he stood in Washington, D.C., having listened to the needs and desires of African Americans. “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.” True moral imagination can reveal shared aspirations and yearnings. King understood and communicated what each of us wants in our own deepest selves. In so doing, he moved the world.
3) Develop grit and persistence. Moral leaders reject the status quo. Doing so requires resilience. Sam Goldman, the co-founder of Acumen investee d.light, was living in a village in Niger when he witnessed a kerosene lantern tip and cause a major fire in his neighbor’s hut. At that moment he decided to commit to eradicating kerosene from the lives of the poor, and then found a partner, Ned Tozun, eager to pursue the same dream. Had they understood then that it would take years to understand the market, design the right products and build a viable company, they may never have even gotten started.
But the two co-founders stayed focused on their mission. They persisted, failing numerous times, always finding the tenacity to get back up again. As of today, d.light has brought affordable solar products to nearly 60 million people. It wouldn’t have happened without their dogged effort, grit and persistence.
4) Practice moral courage. The world needs more individuals willing to stand up for those unlike themselves?—?to stand with the poor or the vulnerable?—?though it can be difficult or uncomfortable and may seem to have no benefit for them. Many say they yearn to do the uncomfortable but that they lack the bravery, that the cost is too high. But if you refuse to leave your comfort zone, you should get out of the game.
I believe leaders learn courage. You become courageous by practicing courage. It starts with speaking your own truth, even if your lips are trembling. It includes speaking up for those who are not in the room when decisions are being made, ensuring that new programs or policies include those who too often are invisible. Innovation and change?—?especially for the vulnerable, the marginal, the poor?—?requires new ways of thinking, interacting and measuring. They take courage.
5) Believe. Moral leaders live with faith that life can improve and are willing to work to make it so. They remind themselves?—?and those around them?—?that the sun will rise after even the darkest night. Many integrate rituals into their lives, reminders that they are part of something bigger than themselves. One of Acumen Pakistan Fellows, Fahad Afridi, is a soft-spoken Pashtun who has seen too much violence in his community. When he touches his head to the ground in prayer, he says he is reminded to pause and feel gratitude for the earth, and for all we are given. He reminds himself of our human interconnectedness. It gives him resolve to do his work.
Other Acumen Fellows in that area of the world run schools despite enormous?—?and very real?—?security threats. They show up daily to provide not only education to the children in their communities but also to convey a sense of protection, though they know their powers are limited. They must find their own strength to enable these children to believe in a better world. They bring a hopefulness and, ultimately, a path to overcome despair.Freeing others to dare to believe in a better future requires a reservoir of belief?—?and, again, the moral courage to act on those beliefs.
Through this commitment to others, through working with moral imagination and courage, leaders ultimately clarify their own values and beliefs. They are grounded in love driven by justice.
The moral leaders of today recognize that we have an enormous opportunity?—?an opportunity no other generation has had?—?to extend the fundamental assumption that all are born equal to every human being on the planet. They are building new organizations and institutions, redefining success, and making life better not just for themselves but for people they may never meet, never know.
The world needs more of them. More of us. It needs every one of us to cultivate the habits and practices of moral leadership.
When you think of the leaders needed today, which qualities resonate? What other qualities are most important to cultivate in our children and in ourselves?
This post was originally published on Acumen:Ideas on Medium.com.
This is the third piece of a month-long series on what it takes to change the way the world tackles poverty and how we, as a society, can shift the narratives around the poor. Read the full series on Acumen Ideas.
Value-Driven, Forward-Thinking Academic Director and Educator
8 年As Aristotle said, "He who cannot be a good follower cannot be a good leader." And what this means is that nobody can be a leader all the time, and that to be a leader you have to know what you're doing. If you're in a situation where somebody else will make a better leader than you, let them lead, and learn from them. Eventually you will gain experience and understanding and you'll find yourself in situations where you actually need to be the leader because nobody else present is better suited for it. Then you gain more experience and understanding and you'll find that you're often the person in the room who is best suited to being the leader. So now you're a natural leader and can be put in broad leadership situations where you may not always be the most capable in the room, but are highly capable, and always willing to take suggestions from other capable people. To be a moral leader people need to overcome their own selfish desires so that when put in a position between 'the greater good' and 'the greater benefit to yourself', the decision is that much easier to make. Even when committed to a cause 'higher than yourself', it can become very easy in times of personal distress to put the higher cause on hold for a little while you take care of yourself. While this is ok with how you use your time (as personal problems can greatly affect work and how you interact with the world, so they should be handled ASAP), it's not ok with how you use investor or donor money or other resources. If you become a natural leader through personal development, the 5 traits you mentioned will come naturally. These traits cannot be cultivated purposely but are side effects of your own development. For example, you cannot directly learn to believe, but through personal development, seeing yourself go through obstacles which only help to enrich your life, you learn that things can get better for everybody, and belief in a better future is born.
Corvias
8 年I agree with you Vickie, do you see these in yourself and others. Do we need to tell leaders who do not have these.
Executive Director
8 年Bravo.
Ethicist Uniting Church in Australia
8 年Thank you Jacqueline for your post, very inspiring.