What should I Teach my child??

What should I teach my child ? Which moral or value should I bring in my beloved ,to make him/her a winner in this fast paced world?

Well, it shouldn’t be a news when I say that children don’t listen to what you say ,rather they observe you. They see how you are , and then if it makes sense to them,they do it….We all have been there ,haven’t we?

If I talk for myself , I still feel how true it is in me ,if someone is telling me to do something , I do listen ,but then I see how that person is behaving , has it worked in his/her life ? Are they joyous ? Are they even at ease? Because if they aren’t then …? Then why the hell are they teaching me to do something that hasn’t worked well in their life ?

Why is it that we are teaching something that hasn’t worked well in our own lives ? To preach someone or guide ,or whatever, comes so easy ,but when it comes to following , is it just for the other person?

You’re in traffic , getting late you ,start swearing ,your kid observes.You may smile at him and make some dumbarse excuse but his intelligence knows …

You’re on phone with your employee and are scolding him for whatever ,he sees…..

You disrespect the maids in your house and call them beneath you,child notices

Later you tell the child ‘ Be good , don’t cuss ,love all ,respect all,all are one…….’ BS! He may or may not nod ,depending on the fear you instilled in him,but he wouldn’t inculcate any of that moral BS you spewed! Because he has seen you enact something different! …………Then later in life you wonder ,where did all the malice ,disdain,temperament come in into him?

You should make yourself in such a way that the child can approach you when he has questions, because he will .You’re not the only influence on child ,there are many other ,friends ,society people ,school etc . How you are ,will determine whether the child approaches you or his friends or someone else…!

Furthermore, like i mentioned before I still live by this , Best way to know if your Preacher’s preachings are worthwhile or not See if that has worked for the person. Is he joyous and happy in his life ? Is his life an example of his words….

Don’t hear what they say , See what they do!