What is the realization that brings your twin flame back as a chaser?

L. Desmond Robins, B. Sc. Physics & Mathematics, University of Queensland (1980) Answered Feb 2

The realization that brings your twin flame back is that you are no longer chasing them. Your twin flame runs from themselves and your connection, represented to them by you. They feel the energy of you wanting them back, and they run from that because it’s in them too and violates something in their conditioning in a way they can’t tolerate.

When you decide you’ve had enough and start to move on, that’s when your twin flame will sense that you aren’t there for them anymore. That’s when they will stop, turn around and start back towards, you, if at all. It’s quite possible for your twin flame to continue regardless, because 3D is full of influences which can completely destroy any possibility of a return.

It’s all about life lessons and losing someone because you have been too determined to keep running is a good one. If you as the chaser decide you’ve had enough, and move on to a new soulmate who comes into your life when you’re ready, your twin flame will have no one to return to when they finally wake up. This is not the end of their journey with you, but may in fact be the end of this leg of it in the current life. Your twin flame will learn from that the pointlessness of following social rules, in the face of love.