what is quickly done is quickly undone

I wasn't happy with my daughter. During her trip back to Vietnam, she wanted a pair of skates as a gift on her birthday. Deserving it? Yes, absolutely. But we decided not to give it to her immediately. Life is hard and unfair after all, isn't it? We told her that if she could show us how passionate she is with ice skating, then it is worth to get her one. We didn't see it from her so she got something else on her birthday. Guess what? When she got back to the US, she used her savings to buy one. And that's what got me upset. She had failed the mashmallow test one more time.

“Good things take time” is a phrase that we have all heard before, but often forget. In a world that values instant gratification and quick results, it becomes easier to be frustrated when things just don't happen as fast as we want. That's when we need to remember that anything worth having is worth waiting for. In this article, we'll explore why good things take time and how patience and perseverance can help us achieve our goals.

It's important to understand that good things take time because they require effort, hard work, and dedication. Anything that is worth having in life requires us to put in the time and effort to achieve it. Whether it's a successful career, a happy relationship, or a healthy body, these things cannot be achieved overnight. It takes consistent effort and our willingness to put in the work every day.

Good things take time because the journey itself is often just as important as the destination. The process of working towards a goal can teach us valuable lessons about ourselves and the world around us. Along the way, we develop skills, gain experience, and learn from our mistakes. This process can be frustrating at times, but it's important to remember that every step we take is bringing us closer to our goal. We are constantly growing, learning, and changing as we move through life. This means that our goals and aspirations will change over time as well. It's important to be flexible and adaptable, and to enjoy the journey as we work towards our goals.

Good things take time because the best things in life are often the result of a slow and steady journey. When we rush towards our goals, we may miss important details or overlook important opportunities. But when we take our time, we can be more deliberate in our actions and make better decisions. This can lead to greater success and fulfillment in the long run. So let's be patient, work hard, and enjoy the journey as we work towards our dreams.

Here are some tips to remind us about the importance of patience and perseverance:

1.????Set realistic expectations: When we set unrealistic expectations for ourselves, we're setting ourselves up for disappointment. Instead, set realistic goals and understand that achieving them will take time.

2.????Focus on the process: Instead of just focusing on the end result, focus on the process of achieving your goals. Enjoy the journey and take pride in the progress you're making along the way.

3.????Stay motivated: It's important to stay motivated and remind yourself of the reasons why you're working towards your goals. Keep a list of your goals and the reasons why you want to achieve them, and review it regularly.

4.????Embrace the challenges: Challenges are an inevitable part of any journey towards success. Instead of viewing them as setbacks, see them as opportunities to learn and grow.

5.????Practice patience: Patience is a skill that can be developed with practice. Instead of getting frustrated when things don't happen quickly, practice patience and trust the process.

6.????Surround yourself with positive influences: Surrounding yourself with people who support and encourage you can help you stay motivated and remember that good things take time.

7.????Celebrate small successes: Celebrate the small victories along the way. This will help you stay motivated and remind you that progress is being made, even if it's not happening as quickly as you'd like.

Our question for you is: "What would happen if you can hold on to something you love doing a little longer?"