What originates when you blend a late bloomer and a thirst for knowledge?
I was a late bloomer when it came to books, dreading the prospect of taking up non-fiction books because of my lack of interest in reading.
Jump forward a couple of decades, and one of my favorite hobbies is reading and buying books. What changed for me?
The desire for serenity, focus, and mindfulness gave me thirst for literature, psychology and philosophy.
You see the more I read, the less I realize I know…
Again, the joy and sense of achievement came from successfully using the knowledge and insights obtained from reading in practical real-life circumstances.
Last year, I aimed to read 52 books but fell short of 10 books due to a busy schedule, but I persevered and even during the holiday break. With each new book read, I tried to apply for a key takeaway so that I could invest in my growth.
I discovered that many recent self-help books are essentially reworks of the classics. You may avoid reading the majority of the current self-development books by focusing on cult classics.
Some books have had a substantial beneficial influence on my life.
Atomic Habits by James Clear.
“Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become”
Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits. Net worth is a lagged measure of financial habits. Weight is a lag measure of one’s eating habits. Your knowledge is a lag measure for learning habits. Your clutter is a lagging measure for cleaning habits.
5AM Club by Robin Sharma
“The early morning has gold in its mouth.”
The morning routine set the tone for the entire day. By waking up at 5 AM and dedicating the first hour to activities that nourish your mind, body, and spirit, you are setting yourself up for success in all areas of life. Whether reading, meditating, exercising, or journaling, the key is to prioritize personal growth and development before the demands of the day take over. Join the 5 AM Club and start each day with the intention, purpose, and powerful mindset that will carry you through whatever challenges come your way.
Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene
"The measure of a man's character is what he would do if he knew he never would be found out."
Your character is not something you are born with but something you cultivate and shape over time. It is the sum of your habits, values, and beliefs - the foundation of your life. By taking control of your character and cultivating the qualities you most admire in yourself and others, you can become a powerful force for good in the world. The true mark of character is not how well you do in times of ease and prosperity but how you respond to challenges and adversity. Through struggle and hardship, one can develop the strength, resilience, and moral fortitude to overcome obstacles and achieve greatness in all areas of life. Ultimately, it is your character that defines who you are and what you stand for, and it is within your power to shape this in any way you choose.
The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho.
“The universe always conspires in favor of the brave.”
Tell your heart that the fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself. And that no heart has ever suffered when it goes in search of its dreams because every second of the search is a second's encounter with God and eternity.
Think Again by Adam Grant
"The greatest danger to progress is not ignorance, but the illusion of knowledge."
True success is not about being right all the time but about being willing to reconsider your assumptions and beliefs. The most successful people are not those who are always confident and certain, but rather those who are willing to question their own ideas and consider new perspectives. To truly thrive in today's rapidly changing world, we must all become expert 'rethinkers' - constantly questioning our assumptions, challenging our biases, and embracing the power of uncertainty and doubt.
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Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell
?"To build a better world we need to replace the patchwork of lucky breaks and arbitrary advantages that today determine success... with a society that provides opportunities for all."
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People who stand before kings may look like they do it all by themselves. However, they are invariably the beneficiaries of hidden advantages and extraordinary opportunities and cultural legacies that allow them to learn and work hard and make sense of the world in ways that others cannot. This makes a difference, where and when we grow. The culture we belong to and the legacies passed down by our forebears shape the patterns of our achievements in ways that we cannot begin to imagine.
Emotional Intelligence by?Daniel Goleman
"Emotional intelligence doesn't mean suppressing emotions; it means managing them in a way that they don't manage you."
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Learning to manage and control our emotions so that they do not negatively affect our conduct or well-being is what emotional intelligence is all about. We may strengthen our decision-making abilities and communication skills and make more meaningful connections with others by cultivating them. We can control emotions through self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and friendliness.
Man’s Search for meaning by Viktor Frankl
"What is to give light must endure burning."
We find our own unique meanings in life by responding to our circumstances, relationships, and experiences. Life tests us and the answer is revealed in how we respond. We find meaning in life through creative work, love/affection, and suffering, all of which are essential to our human experiences. We have the freedom to choose our attitude and remain true to our character regardless of life experiences. We can demonstrate humanity in unexpected areas.
Who moved my Cheese by Spencer Johnson
"Change can be scary, but you know what's scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving and progressing."
Change may be uncomfortable and even terrifying; however, refusing to adapt and evolve can lead to stagnation and wasted opportunity. By accepting change and confronting our anxieties, we can realize our full potential and achieve greater success in all aspects of our lives.
Originals by Adam Grant
"The hallmark of originality is rejecting the default and exploring whether a better option exists."
Originals are nonconformists who not only have new ideas, but also take action to champion them. They are the people who stand out and speak. Originals drive creativity and change in the world, and they are the ones who shape our tomorrow. However, to become original, one must fight against the gravitational pull of conformity, which is not easy. It requires courage, persistence, and resilience. Are you ready to join the ranks of originals and make your mark on the world?
Think Fast and Slow by Daniel Khanman
"The test of learning psychology is whether you can apply the lessons of the laboratory to real life."
Humans are storytelling primates. We constantly search for meaning and causality in the events around us. The stories we tell shape our perceptions and beliefs, which in turn influence our decisions and actions. However, here's catch: The quality of our story matters more than the quantity of evidence we have. Even if we see very little, we can convince ourselves that our story is true and feel confident about our beliefs. This cognitive illusion can have real-world consequences.
“Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body, and writing is to the mind what stretching is to the body.” — Natalie Goldberg
Don’t merely read nonfiction; actively begin to implement what you’ve learned. Take notes as well as make posts for the crucial opinions or quotations that encourage you to act.