What one veteran does on Veterans Day—a personal perspective

Nov. 11 has a very specific meaning and purpose for our country. It is a day that is dedicated to celebrating all of America’s veterans for their sacrifices and bravery. It is always on Nov. 11, unlike many other holidays that typically land on a Monday. It is a day to remember all who served in our armed forces and came home. Sometimes that can confuse people because there are two other holidays also related to those who serve (or served) with different outcomes.

I’m frequently asked to explain three specific holidays because people want to understand the difference of each one. The three I’m referring to are Armed Forces Day, Veterans Day and Memorial Day:

• Armed Forces Day – traditionally held on the third Saturday in May, honoring all the U.S. military services. Think of this as a day to recognize those who currently wear the uniform.
• Veterans Day – held on Nov. 11, honoring those who served in one of the branches. Think of this as a day to recognize those who got to take off the uniform.
• Memorial Day – traditionally held the last Monday of May honoring and mourning the U.S. military personnel who died while serving in the United States Armed Forces. Think of this as the day to recognize/mourn those who died and never got to take off the uniform.

But, then what does a veteran do on Veterans Day? I can’t speak for all veterans, but I’ll tell you what I do each Nov. 11. I take time to reflect on my service, and those around me who made it easier for me to be a sailor in the Navy. Then, I call several of those people to thank them for their love and support while I flew all over the globe hunting submarines. If they are local, I will go visit them, give them a big hug and spend some time with them talking about that period in our lives – the good times, and the hard times. I also send emails, text messages and letters.

Since the end of World War I, the U.S. has acknowledged that collective sacrifices of individuals lead to peace, marking Nov. 11 National Armistice Day in 1919 (now known as Veterans Day).

Our history reminds us that we are all interconnected and that it isn't the sacrifice of one man or woman, it is the sacrifices of all of us who ensure our nation's peace.

Amongst the celebrations, I hope that you take a moment to feel the gratitude from me and all veterans for your willingness to support us and for your personal sacrifice ensuring the common good. Take solemn pride in the fact that we all contribute to peace and let that spirit give your actions focus and your mind hope for a better tomorrow.

I will (again) sign off with a quote that I love, the title of a book by Mat Best; “Thank you for my service.”

Yours in health,

Jim Marchetti US Navy Veteran, 1984-1992 UC Davis Health Veterans Employee Association Co-Chair