What was my first priority in choosing my life partner?

What criteria applied to choose my wife what criteria applied I come from?

 I come from a single nuclear family, during my school days after summer vacation, my teacher used to ask all the boys how did you spend your summer vacation?

 Most of my classmates used to say they went to their uncle's house, aunt's house, grandma's house, grandpa house, relatives house, cousins house, and al the good memories with their relatives, after year every summer vacation I used to hear such stories from my classmates.

 I was wondering why can't go to my uncle's house? my aunt's house? or my grandmother’s house?

 my parents cannot afford, None of the relatives is were interested in coming to my house

 I did not know that a relationship is given and take policy

Little i realized, That if my parents go to their house then only they will come to my house

 if I give something to my cousins my cousins will also give something to me.

 little did I realize a relationship is a two way Street 

This consists of Giving and taking policy

 one great area I put myself criteria for my future wife , is she should have a lot of relatives

 I saw  that girl side lot of relatives coming and going enjoying small incidents together I talked to her aunt before marriage

I talked to every family member of the girl side before marriage itself, also crosse checked it personally many times.

 I carefully noted for every family function minimum an uninvited guest 40 to 50 relatives and friends They were not rich but average earning, average family but with exrodianry love and relationship in helping each other

 I just plunged into this opportunity and married this girl, they will not rich financially but they were rich relationship-wise. that was one of the important criteria of my marriage on that day, Today I do not regret even after 30 years of marriage that was a wise decision I took on my life on that day

I did not want my future children to suffer like me starving for relationships. 

I want this same girl in many many more births together