What are the most and least attractive emotions of a woman?
Kanan Tandi
Psychotherapist & Behavioral Consultant for C-Suite | Body Language & Trauma Healing Expert | Founder, Body Speaks Better & Cognicue | Speaker & Media Contributor
Women usually spend a lot on the cosmetics and in clothes shopping, thinking they would look attractive and it is ok. But have we ever thought, there could be something, which can actually, make a difference in the way people look at us? According to Psychological research the most attractive emotion on a woman, which is liked by all is actually, happiness.
Yes, happiness, not the fake one, but the genuine happiness. People would want to spend time with people who are happy all the time and this acts as a charm.
I would like to quote an incident from the history, all of us know the famous Roman personality Julius Caesar and we also have heard about the Queen Cleopatra, her beauty is famous all over the world. Back then, a man was allowed polygamy. It is being said, that despite of having other wives, Cleopatra was Julius Caesar’s favorite. Only thing is, she decided to be happy whenever he comes to visit her. She also decided to not complain at all to Julius, unlike his other wives. Gradually, Julius indirectly started comparing her to his other wives and found out that she is much better than all of them.
According to the research, a happy woman is also linked to femininity. And the character of happiness in a woman is also associated with trustworthiness. Therefore, if you are a happy woman, and you are happy genuinely, most likely, people would also consider you trustworthy.
Now, it is the turn of least attractive emotion. It is very simple one to guess, the least attractive emotion for a woman to have is “pride”. Having pride is also linked to "being an unfriendly" a woman. Researchers say, this might be one of the reason that people also link it opposite way, that if a woman is not friendly, they consider her to be having a lot of pride .
So, a single trait of how you show your emotions can make or break your impression. We want to be better always at everything, but we never pay attention to those little things that we usually do. Just by becoming happyand talking nicely to someone can increase our likeability and just by reducing the unhealthy pride , we can continue to be a better person.
Next time when you meet someone, just for once, do no complain about anything, meet and tell them how happy you are and see the other person change. Remember, the most attractive thing in a woman is her happiness, and the least attractive thing in her is pride.
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6 年Nice Topic to discuss