What is more attractive mind, body or soul?

Everybody knows about the physical attraction. Whenever an attractive woman passes by lot of eyes follow her movements. Similarly a handsome man attracts the attention of many women. Any amount of sermon that the beauty is only skin deep is not going to change the minds of the people. In fact it is involuntary and the work of Adrenalin to race the heart fast and sometime to do uncivilized things. What is not easily understandable is that many times we have seen handsome young people run behind ordinary looking damsels. They say that something is attracting them and the same Adrenalin works there as well.

This is quite simple so to speak. The physical attraction is attraction by the body, its appearance, its feel and lust of contact. Sentimental attraction rather relies on personality traits lithe the way the person behaves, feel, sentiments, culture, support, energy sharing, etc.Using the word “soul connection” instead or “sentimental attraction” supposes that this attraction has a deeper origin, like a previous life, or that souls are created in pairs, or in a way to complement each other. If so, we need to meet a precise person, while physical or sentimental attraction can happen with random persons. But this is a complicated discussion.

Some say that something in their eyes is attracting them . They go to the extent of saying that there is some radio wave links them . Even if they cannot get married for several reasons their image stay in their minds permanently . The image of thousands of beautiful girls in the world may fade quickly but the contact of two souls remain forever in the memory of the souls. It means their understanding and love for each other goes beyond carnal or base desire. Those two elements often never enters such a relationship. Their relationship exist in a state of enlightenment and pure love. Meaning there’s no interior motive to love each other than for the sake of love itself. You love them simply because they exist. Rarely does people find this because living in a physical world we love people for many different reasons.

You can fall in love with someone’s inner essence, the person inside that isn’t defined by their body or mind, the vast ever present awareness that makes them completely unique in the entire universe. You can be attracted to that, instead of anything specific. That kind of love is transcendental because it doesn’t depend on anything external. If they give you a piece of their hair, you love it because it’s from them, not because of the color or texture. You find yourself loving things about the person because they are a part of the person, not loving the person because of the external thing. It’s not an emotional reaction to another person’s appearance or actions, it’s a realization of our interconnectedness, an experience of being one with something greater than ourselves. It’s a love that transcends the limits of 3 dimensional existence.

A soul tie is an emotional bond or connection that unites you with someone else. You can become bound to a person through your soul. Have you found yourself tormented by thoughts about a person, excessively wondering about them, checking on them, rehearsing times with them? If so, you have soul ties. Have you grieved over a severed relationship with someone you were once close to? If so, you have soul ties.

Soul ties are formed through close friendships, through vows, commitments and promises, and through physical intimacy. Not all soul ties are bad. God wants us to have healthy relationships that build us up, provide wisdom, and give godly counsel. God will strategically bring good relationships into our lives to form healthy soul ties. At a low point, after pursuing a girl that just “wasn’t that into me” for about a year, I had one night where I just said: “God, I’m tired of doing this my way: I’m open to what you have to show me. Please, send me someone to love, and someone that loves me back”, and I meant it. Two days later, a girl that I had known off and on for a couple months, comes over to my table and strikes up a conversation with me. Instead of blowing her off (because she wasn’t really my type) I thought “what the hell, why not talk to her?”, and we started having a really intriguing conversation.

Spiritual love - love between two souls whereas physical love needs an object to love, in spiritual love it comes from inside. Physical love - in this love, you are attracted towards a human, you need a base for that attraction, it can be face, character, money, fame anything. Physical love fades away when the indifferences appears, physical love lacks complete acceptance, physical love based on expectations, it never last long, never ever. Human behaviour is like this, one we get our desired thing, we create another desire, thus in physical love when the attraction fades away, we try to find someone more attractive

The motivation of physical love is only sex and other material things there is negativity in physical love, it binds you in non ending desires. Spiritual love - spiritual love is only possible with divine, and sometimes it is possible between two highly spiritual persons. In Spiritual love, we do not run behind the motivation of pleasure, there is already so much happiness we are experiencing every second but we need someone with whom we can share that happiness, we completely accept that person from the soul, we do not care the appearance of that person, spiritual love is a happily journey between two happy persons

Spiritual love is with god, in this love, we feel a sense of belonging, we feel that we only belong to that almighty, we feel that someone has separated us from our almighty, we feel the grace of god, the divine love, like, you take out a fish from water and she is restless because she want to go to the water body again, it is something like this, there is huge intensity of love in spiritual love, you listen music, do chanting to balance that intensity. Both love are 180° apart, physical love binds you, whereas spiritual love sets you free. Cheers!