What makes you complete and stronger

It is a well known fact that, a weak person is a person who hurts and takes from others for their own personal gain, in order to get something they didn’t work for, or to get an easier time or an easier life. For example exploiting others time, energy, money for greedy purpose. I think a strong person is a person who has been given many temptations but has managed to resist most or all of them to rise above it and show will power.

Moreover, it has to do with how much pressure life can throw at you but you still keep moving forwards and trying to do the right thing. In short, the level of dark temptation and pressures life throws at you, but you still try to be good and decent person makes you a strong person.

Also the situations are different for different people. I think facing your worst fears is one of the bravest things you can do, even if you’re shaking with fear at the through of it. Even if the fear looks stupid from the outside. If it’s hard for you, then you’re brave and doing well to face it, regardless of outside opinions.

And I don’t think people who are tough facing something they find easy is being strong, I think people facing something they personally find difficult in order to do the right thing is strength. Also sacrificing something you want because you know that in the long term it’s better for you and other people is strong.

I also believe that most people’s identity comes from how others see them or how they themselves feel about themselves. If they feel better than others, then they are; and if they feel less than others, then they are. This is absolute unreality, and such people often talk about individualism and independence, but they are neither. Their reality is shaped by their feelings and others’ opinions and usually nothing else. This is bad news and is at the heart of the problems you see in society or at least in western world where no one knows who they are and this problem runs across cultures, from black to white and so, naturally, “everybody is trying to be ‘some body’.or at least trying to prove to be different.

What we call as lack of integrity and wisdom is what I believe that most people don’t make moral decisions and stick to those decisions. Integrity is single-mindedness; it makes a person stable, ethical, and trustworthy. It comes from ‘integer’, a root word that we learned in elementary mathematics to mean “a whole number”.

Many live a sort of “Que sera sera” lifestyle and don’t seem to have ‘a working moral compass’ or wisdom about much. “Whoever likes me first, I’ll date her. Whoever strikes a quarter of my fancy, I’ll marry him and later on dump him for good if he doesn't prove to be of her level.” Often chasing short term pleasure and possessions, these people rarely have the first fragment of a backbone.

And as a daily lifestyle, they are often guilty of what is called “Genovese syndrome” also known as “the bystander effect”. They can’t make simple moral decisions because they have no integrity to begin with. Also the lack of self-awareness or individual identity and a lack of integrity apart from wisdom and common sense makes people weak and vulnerable to almost every and any thing.

It’s not till the right circumstances or the wrong ones come about that people who lack these will make bad decisions also sometimes really awful decisions that alarm even their family and friends, do all kinds of things they somewhat initially didn’t want to do or never thought they were capable of doing, and begin to unravel and fall apart. 

I am quite strong and a lot more stronger than I look. Me knowing that I ‘am’ strong gives me a mental strength. If you are weak then do something more than just ‘sitting’ & ‘laying eggs’. Get a job out cleaning, or moving your stuff declutter your home and office. It will make your body feel better - which will make your mind too feel better.

“Your Body is a Temple after all and also your body is your vehicle and not necessarily a figurative ‘couch’, or a ‘good pair of shoes’, or a slick sleek skate board to ride.How exhausted are you getting reaching from here to there? How quickly does your body get winded? Does even thinking about work make you tired? A simple question: When are you going to get healthy? Tomorrow? Next week? Next year? Next life? Make yourself feel good again. Make yourself feel always good. say cheers to life, stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit