What To Look For & How To Hire A Dating Coach When You're Ready For A Relationship

Romance and finding lasting love may seem like things that should just come naturally. Most of us are taught this: People grow up, fall in love, get married, and have children. But if it were that simple, 40% of Americans (that's 40 million) wouldn't be using online dating to meet someone for a relationship. And they wouldn't be taking the next step and asking how to hire a dating coach.

For marriage-minded people — and even those who simply want to be more than friends-with-benefits encounter — dating has a lot at stake. When you think about the rest of your life and the possibility of spending it with one person, those stakes become really high. And if your current approach to finding true love hasn't been working, it's time to consider how to hire a dating and relationship coach.

Reasons for seeking a dating and relationship coach are plentiful. You may have one or several. What matters is that you've reached a point where doing the same old thing and "going it alone" isn't producing the results you want.

Before discussing what to look for and how to hire a dating coach, let's look at why you might hire a dating and relationship coach.

• You notice repeating patterns in your dating. And none of them are working.
• You're new to dating or it's been a while.
• This is your first time dating after a marriage or long relationship.
• You have a demanding job with little time for a social life.
• You haven't met the quality people you would consider for a relationship.
• You don't know where to meet quality people.
• You're shy and find most social settings uncomfortable.
• You lack confidence in your ability to attract a life partner.
• Your online dating profile isn't attracting the kind of matches you want.
• You don't know where to start in putting together a quality profile.
• You don't know which dating sites you should join.
• You've given up believing love is possible for you.
• You feel stuck and not sure what to do at this point.
• You tend to sabotage your own success.

Figuring out how to hire a dating coach when you're ready for a relationship becomes a little easier when you first know your 'why.' No matter what your reason(s), a dating coach becomes your partner on a journey toward fulfilling your dating and relationship goals. She (or he) becomes your ally, and therefore needs to be a good fit for your needs and personality.

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