What Kind of Neighbor Are You?
Dr. Matthew Ogunbukola
Senior Program Director| Adjunct Professor| Consultant
‘So which of these three do you think was a neighbor to him who fell among the thieves?’ (Luke 10:36)
In a world driven by goals, deadlines, and personal ambitions, the question “What kind of neighbor am I?” may seem like an afterthought. Yet, it’s a powerful reflection for professionals navigating the complexities of workplace relationships and personal growth.
The Parable’s Lesson in Action
Jesus’ story of the Good Samaritan highlights a profound principle: being a good neighbor goes beyond duty, profession, or cultural boundaries it’s about meeting the need in front of you with compassion and action.
The Jewish traveler in the story had been robbed, beaten, and left for dead. Two religious leaders, people who by societal standards were expected to embody compassion, walked past him without help. It wasn’t until a Samaritan a member of a group despised by the Jews stopped to help that the story truly came alive. Despite cultural barriers and personal risk, the Samaritan used his resources, time, and energy to care for the injured man. His actions defined what it means to truly be a neighbor.
A Neighbor in the Workplace
As professionals, we encounter countless opportunities to be “neighbors” to those around us. Perhaps it’s the colleague struggling with a challenging project, a team member navigating personal hardships, or even someone outside your immediate circle who could benefit from your expertise or support.
Being a neighbor doesn’t always require grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s about:
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Compassion in Leadership
For leaders, being a good neighbor sets the tone for the culture of your team or organization. When you lead with empathy and prioritize people over processes, you inspire trust, loyalty, and collaboration. Like the Samaritan, leadership often requires stepping outside of comfort zone and investing in others selflessly.
The Power of Love and Courage
The Samaritan’s actions were rooted in love and courage. As professionals, it’s easy to get caught up in metrics and outputs, but true success comes from embodying these qualities in our interactions. A neighbor isn’t identified by their position, title, or background—they are identified by their response to the nearest need.
A Simple Prayer to Start
Here’s a powerful prayer to guide your journey: "Lord, give me the courage to recognize and help a neighbor in need."
This prayer can transform your perspective, helping you see opportunities to make a difference, both big and small.
Takeaway for the Week
As you navigate your professional and personal life, ask yourself: “What kind of neighbor am I?” Let this question shape your actions, inspire your growth, and guide you to make meaningful contributions to those around you.