What Isn’t Love?

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Love isn't staying up till 3 am in the night to talk to each other every third day.That's not Love, it's immaturity.

Love isn't sacrificing your goals for someone.

Instead, you help each other achieve your goals.

Love isn't chasing them after they leave you and saying? “Please I love you, don't leave me”.

That's not love, that's just you being needy on the inside for someone who doesn't care about you, because if it was love, they would have stayed and figured things out with you.

Love isn't about how perfect a relationship you have or how perfect a partner you have.

It's about how you accept each other's imperfections and are willing to put in consistent efforts. Because in the end what matters is how the both of you go through your tough times and make the best out of your beautiful relationship.

Love isn't constantly trying to make sure of the fact that your partner might cheat on you because you are scared to lose them.

That's just a lack of trust on your side because of some experience that you might have. It's not wrong to feel this way but it will lead to unnecessary drama. Trust is the underlying foundation of a relationship so you should work on that first.

Love isn't depending on your partner for everything.

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Thank you?….Bottom-line is that you’re helping, in my opinion. But you will become bitter, because people like that exist. That’s really your biggest fight—your own hopelessness and helplessness.

?In order to really address your question where I interpret “me” to answer toward you as an individual, I would need examples. That’s up to you. But “society” is riddled with manipulation, and you’re not the only one who’s on the back-end wondering, what the hell is going on?

I experience some level of that on a daily basis.

?“Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” ~ Confucius

?Do you want to add a word or two?

Start here. And the woman who said you’re “too kind”—I disagree with that. But you’re likely “too nice.” And those are two different statements.

What are your boundaries?

How often do they get crossed, even when you’ve made them crystal clear?

There’s a tendency for “Don’t” to become exactly what someone else WILL do, and what you requested is what they WON’T do.

Your comments ……

If you’re male interacting with other males, it’s just another example of certain people never growing past the “Peter Pan” playground.

I make the joke sometimes that I feel bad for Captain Hook, because this little d-bag isn’t helping anyone except himself.

There’s a level of inner child that’s healthy, and finding that balance is hard.

But if it comes at others’ expense, which is usually the case, you’re dealing with an “ego.”

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