What Happens After You Outgrow Your Job?
Hank Boyer
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What at first was a perfect fit can feel confining as you’ve matured in your job.? What you do next will define your level of success and career happiness.
It happens to everyone at some time or another in their career.? That terrific job you took, the one you looked forward to because you were learning something new every day, has become stale and routine over time.? Sure, you’ve mastered each detail and have been asked to train new people as they join the department.? But face it – you are now officially bored out of your skull.
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What Are the Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Current Job??
The signs are all there, probably starting when you realized the work that once seemed exciting has become routine.? You don’t feel much challenge because you’ve done it many times before.? Even new assignments are much like past ones – it takes very little time to analyze what you’ll need to do to deliver a successful outcome.? You look forward to unexpected problems just to make things interesting. You might even find yourself stretching out your work in order to fill the day.? One thing is sure…you feel restless and are more irritable than usual.? Come to think of it, you’ve lost you mojo!?
When you reach the point where you’ve outgrown your job, you really have just three choices:
One: Stay. Find a way to take on more responsibilities with your current employer, which is the best choice.? Options here include staying in your current role while adding new responsibilities, or moving elsewhere in the organization to take on a new challenge.
Two: Go. Seek opportunities elsewhere, and when you find that right next role, leave your current employer while finishing well.? It’s your best option if you cannot stay.
Three: Stay and suck it up.? This is your worst option because people who are unhappy begin to coast and eventually become disengaged.? This course will not end well.? ?So cross this option off your list.
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Option 1: Stay With Your Current Employer
There are a number of steps to take if you have outgrown your job but don't want to leave your current employer.? Each involves you taking the initiative to renew your circumstances so you can re-engage:
Ask your supervisor to help you to plan your next career steps with your current employer. ? For example, "I really love working here...it's a great organization with great people.? May I ask your help in planning what my next steps here might be?"? This sends the message you plan on being here, and that you aren't looking outside the organization.? ?
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If you work in a larger organization or one with a multi-person HR department, you might want to have a similar conversation with someone there.? Again, your strategy is to communicate you want to be part of the organization's future.? And HR professionals are both comfortable and adept at having career development discussions, and they know of opportunities beyond your current department.
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Option 2: Time to Go
If you decide you should go, then plan your going wisely so that you leave well.? While demand for talented staff continues to be high, you may need a reference from your current employer, who will remember if you went well or you left poorly, which could impact future opportunities. ??You do have several choices in where you go:
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With Either Choice, Keep Developing Your Skill Set
In life you are either green and growing – or ripe and rotting – and the choice is pretty much yours.? It was the idea of green and growing that led to your feeling of having outgrown your job in the first place.?? In order to remain relevant, you must continue to keep your skills and knowledge current.? The world is moving ahead, and you cannot afford to be left behind because your skills and knowledge are out of date.
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The Bottom Line
When you reach the point where you’ve outgrown your job, you really have just two choices, stay or go.? If you choose to stay, make sure that you remain engaged, learning, and continuing to look for internal opportunities.? If you choose to go, leave well.
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About me: Since founding Boyer Management Group 25 years ago, I’ve been blessed to work with some of the world’s top employers by helping them get the most out of their talented people. My company's extensive?leadership development course catalog provides effective skills-building for everyone in the organization, from the new / developing leader to the seasoned C-level executive.?My company's coaching programs produce significant results in compressed periods of time.?In 2023 I was named CEO Monthly's Most Influential CEO (Executive Coaching, Pennsylvania) for the results we've produced serving our clients. My company's acclaimed career development tools help people navigate the ever-changing landscape of conducting a successful job search.?To find out more, please visit us at?www.boyermanagement.com, email us at [email protected], or call us at 215-942-0982.??