What Freedom Really Is, And Why Many Don’t Choose It
Happy “freedom” month to our US, French and Canadian members. Given the number of international folks who read this, I would be remiss to overlook their independence celebration happening in the same month we celebrate the “birth” of ’Merica.
Of course, every country has SOME holiday or celebration where freedom from oppression is celebrated because the desire to be free is a shared, common value and a prize worthy of pursuit and sacrifice.
It’s the primary reason people go into business for themselves: freedom from having a boss…freedom from having someone telling them what to do…freedom to keep the hours they want…freedom to work as much or as little as they want. The motivation for me to learn how to sell was financial freedom; it was the ONLY job where I could earn as much as I wanted based on my performance, NOT based on my background, age, sex, lack of education, lack of experience, hours worked or even “what the job pays.” To quote Zig, I could wake up one day and decide to give myself a raise – and it would be effective as soon as I became effective.
But here’s what freedom is NOT: the right to do as you please and have what you want WITHOUT consequences.
As the saying goes, “Freedom isn’t free.” It’s earned. Fought for. Protected. If you desire financial freedom, you don’t get it by wishing for it or demanding it from others, and you certainly don’t get it by p’ing and moaning about your external circumstances, wishing it was easier or hoping things will get better. You get it by going out into the free market and earning it like everyone else, overcoming the SAME problems, challenges, obstacles and headwinds we all face.
The GOOD NEWS for some: success, in any way you want to define it, is birthed from choice. You choose your work ethic. You choose the skills you develop. You choose your clients and the fees you charge (or the job you take and the salary you negotiate). You choose the diet and exercise plan you’re on. You choose what you spend money on. This is a very “inconvenient truth” for many who are failing and cling to their good excuse, preferring it over a good opportunity.
You can CHOOSE to spend 30 minutes, an hour or more a day working on improving your ability to sell, or you can choose to watch TV, screen-suck Facebook or consume some other useless entertainment on your phone.
You can CHOOSE to get up at 5:00 a.m. and work ON your marketing, work ON your business, work ON creating wealth for yourself, or you can choose to sleep in and complain about “not having any time” to work on the things you keep saying are important (but your actions and time and money invested show something different).
You can CHOOSE to spend your money on cars, vacations, new technology and gadgets, or you can choose to invest that into a seminar or workshop where you can gain knowledge and skills to change your life.
Of course, some misery in life is not chosen. There’s a randomness of a lightning strike. But for MOST, their misery and failings is the product of a lifetime of poorly made choices and horrible habits that keep them from being truly free. I would also add…
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Nobody has the right to complain about something in their life or their business they don’t like, or any negative situation they find themselves in, that they are not ACTIVELY working on improving or changing.
I know I’ve done this “rant” before, but it bears repeating, particularly on a day when we celebrate freedom from oppression. ?I’m sick to death of people – educated, capable, grown adults who chose to go into business for themselves – complaining to me about how there are “no good people to hire” or about how “clients don’t value IT” or about how hard it is to make money in an IT business, how hard it is to manage their time, how hard it is to do marketing.
While this is all true, they KEEP themselves imprisoned by refusing to invest any real time or money into improving themselves. ALL of the problems they complain about in business CAN BE SOLVED. And not with “secrets” locked up and reserved for only a select few, but with blueprints and tried and true solutions, lying about in plain sight, in books, in videos, in seminars and workshops. Many of which are FREE, easily accessed via the phone these complainers carry around with them everywhere.
Today, in the free country we live in, with ALL of the information we have available at our fingertips, there is absolutely, positively NO EXCUSE for permanent or long-term failure in business, in marketing, in selling or in any area in your business that is not where it should be. Never before have the barriers to starting a business been so low. Never before have the opportunities to achieve financial independence been so great. Never before have so many powerful tools and technology been so readily, easily available to just about everyone.?
Very few things in life, both good and bad, are unmovable and permanent. There are too many paths and opportunities to allow a situation/person/business to exist unchanged. You might totally suck at selling today, but if you got up every single day for the next 365 days and studied and practiced how to succeed at selling, reading books, scripting yourself, practicing at getting better, improvement WILL come. You suck at selling because you choose to suck at it and refuse to improve.
Here at mid-year, how are you doing? What problem are you allowing to persist? What situation have you permitted for too long? Solution: Wake up an hour earlier every day and focus on the solution to that ONE problem, and I guarantee you’ll be free of it before you know it.
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CXO Relationship Manager (Personal PR Management and Branding)
4 个月Thank you for sharing this information for useful
I meant to comment about your rant regarding the sick kid that raped his sister but I wrote it and let it go.? IE The Porn Industry is the number one use of bandwidth on the Internet and when we built the next the idea was to prevent it. Back in those early days it was common for many to take out those sick enough to host child porn. They would root out their servers. End them. Not today. Hence that kid is in a broken world that you cannot see from the stage. I have the utmost respect for you by the way and I do not mean you are too naughty to see it at all, as you are a magnificent addition to humanity. Just remember the Porn Industry is dark deep and not naturally part of our reality. Freedom is similar. Freedom is an individual game. Freedom is a mind thing. Again there are dark and dangerous games at play that this world ignores as if it's all OK.? No one can understand freedom inside another's mind. God bless. I am just a number. There are millions. Geometry of Consciousness is a great subject.? What the hell does it mean.? What is consciousness? The world is not at all what most understand (myself included). ????
Cognitive Neuroscientist at PJP Select Enterprises- Current
4 个月I love your no excuses post. A lot of our future really being in our hands is true. But the idea is that we face the same obstacles is obviously not true. Domestic abuse survivors are on LinkedIn: I know a couple of them. Parents or single parents of neurologically impaired children are also LinkedIn members. Those with multiple health problems requiring multiple surgeries are on LinkedIn as well. Featuring success stories despite special obstacles is what excites me. A favorite theme of mine is from psychiatrist Richard Magraw, M.D. Dick Magraw often reminded faculty in Minneapolis that a lot of great things were been done by individuals not feeling very well at the time. Inspiration in terms of true stories to be directed and invests in ourselves when our load is more heavy than usual may help some more than the idea that obstacles faced are all the same.
Cyber Risk Advisor, Founder and CEO at CAPITALTEK | Cybersecurity and Managed IT Service Provider | Forty Under 40
4 个月Reading this post resonated deeply with me, as I moved to North America in pursuit of the American dream and freedom. Through my journey, I've realized that true freedom and happiness are gained through discipline. Discipline = self-control = more freedom = more satisfaction = more happiness. Freedom isn't just about doing whatever we want without consequences. It's about earning it, fighting for it, and protecting it. This is true not just in life but also in business. I started my own business to escape the limitations of a traditional job and to gain financial freedom. But I quickly learned that this freedom requires a strong work ethic, continual self-improvement, and disciplined choices. I firmly believe and 100% agree that success and freedom come from the choices we make every day. We can choose to improve our skills, manage our time wisely, and invest in our personal and professional growth. Thank you Robin Robins! Happy "Freedom" Month!
Founder @Wolferdawg IT Consulting | Cyber Risk Management | Managed IT Services
4 个月I wish more would grasp this. It sort of follows the whole “you reap what you sow” concept. That is how I was raised. Now, I enjoy the many freedoms you mentioned in your post. Enjoyed it, thank you.