What does it mean to be Leaders of our Own Life?
The definition of leadership that I resonate the most is a leader is the one who is responsible for their world. That is: having the ability to respond to all what life throws our way, which means having a choice!
Sometimes we might feel like we have no choice in different circumstances. The choice referring here is that of choosing how we respond.
This is a broader definition of leadership - it is not “just” having the role of a leader professionally.?
Being a leader of our own lives involves taking responsibility for our choices, actions, and well-being. It means being proactive in shaping our future, setting goals, and making decisions that align with our values and aspirations.?
Understanding that we have a choice in how we respond to challenges, is in my opinion the most empowering and fundamental principle of taking charge of our lives.
If you haven’t read "Man's Search for Meaning," by Viktor Frankl, I would highly recommend it. He conveys the profound message that even in the most extreme conditions of human suffering, individuals can find meaning in their lives through their choices, attitudes, and purposes.
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Where do we start?
As always the best place to start is being with self, understanding and getting to know us. I know that we are changing daily and being continuously with that curiosity of who is me today? Who am I becoming?
To take it a step further in deepening our self awareness, figure out:?
How aware are you about your strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations? What guides your decisions and actions? Having this self-knowledge makes the process of taking decisions simpler and makes actions clearer.
Intentionality: How intentional are you in your life? Do you take the time to connect with yourself before going into or starting something? How clear and committed are you in the vision that you hold?
Showing up: I guess it is a lot of coach-language this phrase. But what it fundamentally means when we talk about showing up as a leader in your life, is about actively participating in your life and the roles you occupy. It involves being present and engaged, whether in personal relationships, professional settings, or individual pursuits.?
These are just a good place to start. And if you feel overwhelmed even with these, I am here to support you in this journey. Let’s talk!
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