What Does an ideal Partner Look Like?

An Ideal Partner... They don’t ‘look’ like anything in particular. They come in all shapes, sizes and personalities. So what is a healthy partnership anyway? Is it someone who is your type and checks off all your boxes?

Guess again.

Is it having someone who always does everything you want whenever you want? 

Nope.

Is it having someone who never does what you don’t want or expect them to do?

Wrong again.

Is it loyalty, compromise, sacrifice and settling? No, no, no and no again.

Although a truly healthy, happy and expansive partnership can never be fully defined in words... Because No-thing can. Success and Joy do leave clues.

For starters... A healthy happy partnership is one where your ideal partner is a mirror for you and reflects all that you love about yourself and all that you don’t. Their presence magnifies your beauty and successes, triggers your traumas, stirs up emotions, good and bad, enhances your growth, and invites your healing.

Your experience of your ideal partner brings out the best in you and also brings out the worst and they have you looking at yourself in ways no other person can and often showing you things you rather not see but are important for your growth, your self forgiveness, healing, compassion and Love.

They’re the key to the hidden treasure.

It’s not always cozy, loving, passionate and wonderful although if it’s not that most of the time you’re missing out. It can be frustrating, disappointing and painful. But a great partnership is always purposeful and at its foundation is love, appreciation and respect.

A healthy partnership does not complete you. You are whole. They are not your better half. You are not less than one.

A healthy partnership is Gestalt... Where the whole is greater than the sum of the complete parts. One plus One Equals Three and more.

Love Wholly, Live Fearlessly!