"What do you do?"
Anabelle Cormier
Driving Economic Growth for Purpose-Driven Ventures | Always Networking
“What do you do?” Seems like such a benign question, yet it is a loaded one. You hear it at networking events, conferences and even family gatherings. We remind ourselves that our title is not necessarily who we are; we are much more. We are more than just the job, even when the job seems to encompass a large quantity of our time.
Sometimes, we simply get lost in the minutia. Working from home, it all blends together. I am at work, but yet I'm making dinner or loading the dryer.
We are all people... some are parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers, cousins, best friends, etc. There is absolutely nothing wrong with loving what you do. But there is much more to you – I know this from speaking to so many awesome people in our industry. I’ve learned so much about the human race and its abilities to overcome challenges and take on new adventures. Learning about love lost and new beginnings. Personal and professional stories that remind me every day, I love what I do!
Not sure what people expect when they call us, but I know we will listen. And ask questions. Some questions may seem irrelevant, but are thought-provoking and push you to think beyond the resume. More importantly, we will be there, even if we can’t help immediately.
The job market is challenging and impacting sectors differently. Tensions are high in our society and yes, the pandemic continues on. While #InThisTogether, each one of us is experiencing this time very differently. There is no cookie-cutter answer to our problems. There is so much change taking place, impacting businesses and people. Recruiting is pivoting and trends are emerging. What we do next will determine so much. The situation is very fluid. But at the end of the day, we are in the people business and we will always be around. No one really has all the answers, but we can monitor, learn and move forward together.
“What do you do?” I usually end up answering the question with a question! Or simply stating, “I ask myself that question all the time!” It depends on the day and time, really. Not being evasive, just simply straight-forward and honest. ‘Headhunter’ is an easy title to attach, however, it isn’t who I am. I love to volunteer, but finding time is tricky. Liking a challenge, I took the school board seat for the next three years! YIKES!
While not from the selfie generation, mine are usually not well-positioned or complementary; that’s OK. I remember my first flip phone, but still appreciate my new smart phone. Likewise, I still enjoy classic rock but will singalong to Dua Lipa to embarrass my kids. Kids, that is another story, entirely! Next time.
No sales pitch here, just us! Stay safe.
About Stahl Recruiting
Specializing in the North American railway industry, Stahl Recruiting places professionals within engineering, mechanical, maintenance-of-way and sales/business development roles. All placements conducted in a professional and ethical manner; confidentiality strictly maintained.
Director, Business Development @ Hallcon Corp | Collaborative and results-oriented business development leader
4 年Great post Anabelle. And good for you to be on the school board too - that's a big job!
Director of Communications, Transdev U.S.
4 年Great write up, Anabelle!
Director of Business Development at Holland LP.
4 年Great message Anabelle Cormier.Thanks for sharing.
Sales Professional | Relationship Focused | Curious Listener | Seeker of Thoughtful Solutions
4 年Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Anabelle Cormier. Seeing people’s full humanity in the background of Zoom calls has given me a lot of joy and relief. I am not the only one whose life feels strange and blended together into some kind of surreal smoothie. ?We are truly so much more than "what we do" and, to me, showing up as our authentic selves makes our jobs richer. Relationships matter and what we do outside of our professional sphere matters. I have taken up gardening over the pandemic – digging around in the dirt and trying to grow things helps me to work out problems. I grieve what was and imagine what our industry and my kids' schooling will look like in a year. I remain hopeful though nothing is clear. We are all learning and growing in ways we never expected. I know there is more growing to come. So glad to have you in our industry. #inthistogether
Coalition Builder. Transportation Advocate. Social Entrepreneur. 2020's "Most Influential Leaders in Rail."
4 年Thank you for the reminder to take a moment and reflect, Annabelle.