What to do when someone calls out your unconscious bias ??
Stacey A. Gordon, MBA
Bias Disruptor ?? Unapologetic Evangelist for Inclusion ?? Top Voice in Gender Equity ??Global Keynote Speaker ?? #1 Course of LinkedIn Learning (2021)
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What started as a post about a child being bullied at school turned into an unconscious bias lesson for the ages.
Break it down:?
Take a look at the post on the left. What do you assume about the child in the picture?
This post is a fantastic “teachable moment” about unconscious bias. Here’s what happened:
What do you think: Is this instance of misgendering a child from their picture a simple mistake or unconscious bias??
Trick question: Unconscious Bias IS a simple mistake!?
Unconscious bias is something we all have. So why the defensiveness? David doesn’t want to admit there is unconscious bias — they prefer to call this gender mix-up a simple mistake.?
Why? Because there is a pervasive and incorrect notion that if someone calls out your unconscious bias that they are calling you a “bad person” — a racist, sexist, homophobic, etc.?
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But being called out for unconscious bias is not an indictment of your character but part of being human. Remember, calling attention to unconscious bias isn’t calling YOU out — it’s calling out a mistake you made.??
What do we do when we make mistakes? We resolve to do better. As James eloquently suggested, reframing and educating can help us uncover and overcome our unconscious biases (and thank you, James, for recommending our Unconscious Bias course as a resource!).?
Do Something Different:
Remember, we all have unconscious bias. As we recognize it — often because our peers take the time to point it out to us — we must get over our knee-jerk defensiveness and seek to be open and learn from our simple mistakes:?
Start small and start now. Take our popular unconscious bias course — it was LinkedIn’s most popular course in 2021! In just 30 minutes, you’ll learn to let go of defensiveness, and be more open and curious about yourself and others when you make an (unconscious) mistake.
Now, I want to hear from you: have you caught yourself making an assumption based on unconscious bias? Has someone called you out before? How did you react? Let me know in the comments – I’ve shared an example of my own unconscious bias and what I learned, and I’d love to hear from you.
About Stacey Gordon and Rework Work:
Stacey Gordon is Executive Advisor and Diversity Strategist of Rework Work where she and her team coach and counsel executive leaders on DEI strategies for business, while offering a no-nonsense approach to unconscious bias education for the broader employee population. Stacey’s unconscious bias course was the most popular course on LinkedIn Learning platform in 2021 and it has also been translated into multiple languages. Stacey is also the founder and host of the Rework Work Community , a free diversity, equity, and inclusion learning and practice space for professionals. You can find Stacey’s book, UNBIAS: Addressing Unconscious Bias at Work , at Amazon, Barnes & Nobles, and wherever books are sold.
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2 年Love this article! It’s why it’s important to understand versus taking things personal. It’s an opportunity to bring awareness! There is no growth without awareness!
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2 年Stacey A. Gordon, MBA, I really enjoyed reading this article. I always get asked this question when I facilitate training on unconscious bias. The best way to disrupt unconscious bias is through education! SN: I also really enjoy your book!
Bias Disruptor ?? Unapologetic Evangelist for Inclusion ?? Top Voice in Gender Equity ??Global Keynote Speaker ?? #1 Course of LinkedIn Learning (2021)
2 年Years ago when I was working as the Executive Director for a women's organization, I flew into Dallas to meet with the VP of a bank who was planning to sponsor one of our events. The woman didn't have a picture on her LinkedIn profile and we had spoken over the phone a few times, but I had no idea what she looked like. When I arrived at her office, she met me in the lobby and it took a few moments before I realized she wasn't the receptionist or admin assistant, I was actually talking to the VP herself. I could have covered and she wouldn't have known, but I was quite embarrassed at my assumption and I shared that with her. We had a great talk about how Black women are seen in the workplace, even by other Black women.
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2 年What do you do when your unconscious bias is called out: say thank you.
Bias Disruptor ?? Unapologetic Evangelist for Inclusion ?? Top Voice in Gender Equity ??Global Keynote Speaker ?? #1 Course of LinkedIn Learning (2021)
2 年I love that this resonated with so many of you. Keep sharing your stories and this post!! ??