What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up is a Misleading Question
Deb {Zenzi} Helfrich
"Free Thinking is Priceless. Life-Centric Thinking is Abundance Incarnate" ~the trojan GIRAFFE of whiteness~ Seeking Angel Investor> 1-Woman-Improv > HOW TO DEMOLISH RACISM BY 2030 #AutisticAF +Acquired Prodigious Savant
We've all thrown this query around. We've asked others and we've lamented our own inability to nail the answer down properly. But what if the question itself is the problem? What if we've created a society that assumes our childhood urges are impossible, simply because a few administrators and legislators got socialized out of their own sincerely held possibilities?
Might it be the case that we are all meant to be a version of what our childhood selves envisioned? The process of growing might be simply the stretch of education required as our brain develops, wherein we hone our craft. The thing that lights us up a kids.
On my errands this morning, the topic came up about how our state budget wasn't passed and certain aspects of daily life and business-as-normal just won't work tomorrow.
WHAT?
We saw this a couple years back with the federal government. When many, many diligent and hard working people stopped getting paid.
WHAT?
If you cannot count on the US Government to pay you.... Well, I leave the ramifications up to each and every reader to ponder.
What I see as glaringly obvious is that WE – humanity – have created a world that serves rules, budgets, impersonal structures, bank balances, and all sorts of made up concepts, rather than our own true natures.
I demand that we open our perspectives to allow for the next stage of our world.
It is time to take the reigns and redesign broken hierarchies & processes using the richness of the tools of technology and the global communication potential that exists, right now.
Let us figure out how to seek harmony with the whole planet, every single precious ecosystem and niche of life, in the course of designing work and governments and communities that support the really miraculous capacity of each human being to create, innovate, and love.
I demand a life-centric world.
~Deb Helfrich
Most assuredly, the transition team's work will be hard. But we've seen the fall of the Berlin Wall. We've watched as Apartheid evaporated into history. We've become acclimated to immense technological power in the palm of our hand.
The tipping point is out there for the crumbling of these archaic concepts that only divide those who decide from those who suffer, rather than serve to optimize our potential.
I want to work with all my might, to keep this discussion flowing.
I'm not the one to suss out all the details, but I am the one who can uncover our blind spots and advocate for all the discussions that will be needed to get the questions right.
So back to us individuals who struggle to see ourselves in currently defined professions....
Do you now see what a gift this might be?
My current version of the question is thus:
“How do I make a livable wage, while I stay true to the person I have been since birth?"
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The impetus behind my 30 day publishing challenge can be found here >
https://www.dhirubhai.net/pulse/life-altering-power-roadtrip-deb-helfrich-
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"Free Thinking is Priceless. Life-Centric Thinking is Abundance Incarnate" ~the trojan GIRAFFE of whiteness~ Seeking Angel Investor> 1-Woman-Improv > HOW TO DEMOLISH RACISM BY 2030 #AutisticAF +Acquired Prodigious Savant
7 年Andy Barski - would love your thoughts on how I see the responsibility to 'grow down' and reject human systems that are harming us.
Digital Media & Info Tech Strategy Consultant - Certified Business Coach
7 年Not many people can say they knew what they wanted to be when they "grew up"...What I wanted and what I am are 2 diff things now...(Thank GOODNESS for that for me! LOL) I also think at diff phases in our lives, we grow and learn and we are back to "what do I want to be now...?"
Family Therapist, Specialist Gender, Culture, Life Enhancing Skills for Women, Families, Relationships, Mindfulness, Author. #SelfCare #Relationships #Communication #Mental Health, #EQuality, #GGAF #United Way award
7 年Hi Deb Helfrich, I would guess there will be many iterations of the path for you, and one that pays the rent. That is partly because you have so many talents and want to make a difference with both those who commit to your loving hands, and in the world. I was a late bloomer and had no idea what focus going back to college would be. Finally, I reached out and everyone else seemed to know where my abilities would be best served and responded, "why psychology, of course.!" Sometimes other's eyes can be clearer. I truly believe each client who was vulnerable and shared, learned to speak their truth and changed themselves and their family legacy. One mentioned she always wanted to write and I held that for her until she was ready. She dedicated her first book to me which years later is still humbling and reminds me when I'm down that I made a difference, as do you. When you are multi-talented, it may mean that each path was the right one for that time and now you are another adventure. Very best, Maureen Wixon
Deb Helfrich ?, love this post and spoken truthfully that many should relate to when we all peel back the layers beneath. I like your new perspective and question. Timing of this one is awesome and I believe the question should be similar to yours: 'What am I passionate about that can change the world in a positive way?' That question for me, rocked me to the core personally when I look back at 20 years doing what I have been doing respectfully. Maybe I should have asked myself that question a long time ago because I know have a new perspective on so many levels. Thanks for sharing and enjoy your 'July 4th Independence Day' as we celebrate Canada's 150th Birthday confederation tomorrow July 1st ;) Great read before the long weekend!