WHAT TO DO ABOUT A CHEATING SPOUSE

You can decide to leave your marriage, get divorce and move on if there ever is infidelity in your marriage. Matt 5:32, Matt 19:9.

Infidelity is the one reason the Bible gave to allow for divorce. The only condition for which a couple is permitted to divorce is adultery.

The Scripture DID NOT COMPEL that a spouse whose partner cheats must divorce. If your spouse cheats and you chose to divorce based on adultery, it is allowed. 

This means that there is room, there is allowance for forgiveness.

Implying that if a spouse cheats, the other spouse can either decide to forgive or leave the marriage. The decision is totally dependent on the offended spouse. But….

In the situation where a spouse choses to forgive the act of infidelity, grace abounds to do so. Where iniquity abounds, grace much more abounds Rom 5:20. This is not to encourage adultery, it is not a permission to cheat. You could lose your marriage on the grounds of adultery because the decision to stay or leave after infidelity SOLELY lies with the offended spouse. 

This implies that there is a higher level of grace where you could decide to forgive a spouse after infidelity. You can decide to remain married to your spouse even after infidelity, if you feel you have the capacity to deal with it. A spouse who has been forgiven of infidelity should not take it for granted, grace should not be taken for granted Rom 6:15.

Having cleared this crucial point, it is liberating to know that there are ways to prevent infidelity in marriage. There are ways for you to protect yourself and your marriage from the ‘stories that touch’ that comes with adultery.

Also, if there is the likelihood of ongoing infidelity in your marriage, I appeal to you not to leave your marriage because of this. EXCEPT if your spouse is an unloving, selfish, no good spouse, then end your marriage. You are not going to transform such a person into a caring sensitive spouse. BUT, if you have a basically good spouse, who is using an affair to cope with personal problems or with problems in your marriage, I recommend that you take up the challenge of getting your spouse and marriage back on track again. There are proven methods to do this (talking from experience ??) WITHOUT LOSING YOURSELF.

And if you already experienced infidelity in your marriage, have come through it and decided to stay, I applaud you, you’re the real MVP. Since you have chosen to be honorable and walk the higher path of grace, you need to know how to restore intimacy in your marriage after infidelity.

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