What did I learn working with more than 400 people?
We do not have much time, so I will start straight. I hope that you can handle it. It might be a slap across the face, you’re not going to like
Here goes: if you have problems it’s all your fault.
No one else’s. When we outsource blame for our problems to others – governments, bosses, employers, exes –we lose the power to control them.
When we wake up and say “this sh*t is my fault and I’m going to fix it” our brain moves into problem-solving mode. This is the holy grail you want to reach.
When I was in face of failure I realized it!?
10 years ago, I was in a job where it was not possible for me to have success. Logically I mean.? 2 people before me failed. At first, I realized that I cannot do the job, but then I realized that no one can and I was starting to laugh as I realized it is the best thing that could ever happen to me. So I decided to give it a try - but out of mind, no attachments, no personal hard feelings.
After a year I said to myself, “Incredibly if you think you can do it you can, if you think you cannot, you can.”
Victims are overloaded by undiagnosed mental health problems that hold them back for the rest of their life. They can never experience the good life.
Responsible adults own their future and, thus, get to create their future.
Stop being a victim. Start being a responsible adult.
I see the lessons that I took, sharing them with you below...
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Wish you well,
Ioana
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Locum Tenens + Nursing + Allied + Revenue Cycle | Healthcare Staffing and Consulting
1 年"When we wake up and say “this sh*t is my fault and I’m going to fix it” our brain moves into problem-solving mode. This is the holy grail you want to reach. "
Locum Tenens + Nursing + Allied + Revenue Cycle | Healthcare Staffing and Consulting
1 年Short and sweet, thank you for sharing your insights Ioana Marcu!