"What did I do wrong?"
In my goal to help end the suffering of so many (by raising a #Nationalconversation about sex,) who are now coming forward with their own stories of being raped, abused (majority of them woman,) who after years of hiding, feeling alone, being scared, beating themselves up over & over by questioning themselves:
"What did I do wrong?"
"Why didn't I speak up?"
"Why won't anyone believe me?"
Been there done that too many times, reliving these questions right now, as the constant non-stop news of sex scandal after sex scandal are being exposed.
I ALSO KNOW RIGHT NOW I AM NOT ALONE, IN THE RAW EMOTIONS OF THOSE WHO HAVE WHO HAVE BEEN RAPED, SEXUALLY ASSAULTED, THAT ARE BEING OPENED UP AND EXPOSED ALL OVER AGAIN.
JUST RECENTLY I TOO WAS A VICTIM AGAIN, WHEN A HOME I MOVED INTO, THE ROOMATE IN THIS HOME I WAS SHARING WITH, WOULD MAKE STATEMENTS SUCH, AS:
"I KNOW YOU SUCK COCK DANIEL".
"SO, DID SUCK SOME COCK LAST NIGHT," WAS WHAT I WOULD HERE FIRST THING IN THE MORNING.
"ARE YOU GOING OUT LOOK FOR COCK," IF I WAS LEAVING THE HOUSE, TO JUST GO ACROSS THE STREET TO THE CORNER STORE TO BUY SOMETHING.
"I CAN TELL YOU SWALLOW CUM, WHEN YOU SUCK COCK."
THE HARDEST MOST TERRIFYING RAW EMOTIONS TO DEAL WITH FOR ME AND OTHER VICTIMS ARE "WHY ME." & "WHY WON'T THEY BELIEVE ME" (ANYONE I WOULD DARE TO EVEN THINK OF TELLING.)
SO, FRIENDS I REALLY, REALLY COULD USE YOUR HELP PLEASE...UNTIL WE AS SOCIETY ARE WILLING TO TALK ABOUT THIS PROBLEM OF ABUSE...THEN NOTHING IS GOING TO CHANGE.
SO PLEASE POST, SHARE, TWEET, RE-TWEET, SEND THE FOLLOWING HASH TAGS:
#Itstime #Nationalconversation and #Ibelieveyou
Please, please help me get the healing started.
EVERYDAY THOUSANDS ARE ABUSED STILL JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR COLOUR.
EVERY DAY THOUSANDS ARE ABUSED, THREATENED STILL JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR GENDER.
EVERYDAY THOUSANDS ARE ABUSED, JUST BECAUSE OF THEIR FAITH, THEIR LANGUAGE, ETC.
AND WE AS SOCIETY ARE TALKING ABOUT THESE ISSUES AND SLOWLY WE ARE MAKING A CHANGE.
BUT WHAT MANY, MANY PEOPLE FAIL, OR REFUSE TO SEE, IS SEXUAL ASSAULT, RAPE, ABUSE IS CLOSELY TIED TO THE ABOVE.
BECAUSE OF YOUR COLOUR YOU ARE ASSUMED IT IS EASIER TO RAPE YOU AND GET AWAY WITH IT.
BECAUSE OF YOUR GENDER IT IS ASSUMED I CAN RAPE & ASSAULT YOU AND GET AWAY WITH IT.
BECAUSE OF YOU WEIGHT (OVER WEIGHT GIRLS,) ARE TARGETED AT COLLEGE & UNIVERSITY CAMPUSES, BECAUSE THEY ARE EASIER TO PICK UP (JUST SAY A FEW NICE WORDS & COMPLIMENT THEM, AND I CAN FUCK HER (RAPE,) AND GET AWAY WITH IT.
BECAUSE YOU ARE NEW TO THIS COUNTRY, THIS CITY, THIS SCHOOL YOU ARE EASIER TO BEFRIEND AND I CAN FUCK YOU (RAPE YOU,) AND GET AWAY WITH IT. AND NOBODY WILL EVEN UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE SAYING BECAUSE OF YOUR POOR & LIMITED ENGLISH.
All it takes is for you to post, share, tweet, re-tweet
#Itstime #Nationalconversation and #Ibelieveyou
AND I PROMISE & GUARANTEE YOU WILL BE HAPPY YOU DID HELP ME...when someone you know, or some who knows you, tells you thank you. Because of you I am free, I am no longer afraid. Because of you,I am no longer scared talk about it.
Or, when someone tells you: Thank you for giving me my life back...you will be so glad you helped me, help them.
with lots and lots of appreciation, luv, gratitude and a lot of tears,
daniel pressello