What is at the core of you?

Values run deep

You will always see the word values banded about when it comes to business. 'What are your core values?' 'What is important to you?'.... Identifying them is not enough though.

Many people never stop to consider what they are until they are pressed or they come across something that doesn't sit right with them.?

Some people often believe there is something wrong with them because they find things unacceptable that others seem to accept without question.?

The truth is, we are all individual and have different values based on our experiences and lived experiences.?

What are your filters?

Looking at the NLP communication model above, we are all made up of our experiences, memories, values, attitudes and beliefs. One client beautifully put it to me that 'we are the sum of everything that has happened to us'.??

We are shaped by our experiences.?

So then, a value of 'honesty' will mean something different to one person, than another based on their own interpretation or internal representation.

Congruence

When I?was recovering from burnout in 2014 I was introduced to this word. My coach drew 2 lines that were simultaneous on a flip chart.

What you say and what you do need to match.

To say I?had a lightbulb moment was an understatement. I knew this value ran so deep. I sat there aged 38 but feeling like an 8-year-old girl. I?realised I?had had a lifetime of people saying one thing and doing another. I realised that the childlike faith in people had been squished by incongruence.?

Fuelled my values

Now I am not here writing for sympathy, I just wanted to share why congruence and honesty are so important when working in coaching and the wellbeing space.

I?also wanted to share why I?am so protective when I?write about the charlatans who promise the earth and yet deliver a roll of turf.

YOU MATTER

I work with individuals.

You come to me as a whole person and I?don't just see what you present to me. I know that you are the sum of everything that has happened to you and I?treat you accordingly.

I don't compare you to anyone and I?certainly do not promise you the earth if I?can't help.

You are as individual as your fingerprint.

Unique.

Priceless.

Extraordinary!

That said. It is my passion to create a safer space for people to come to coaching. To protect the uniqueness and vulnerabilities that we are absolutely honoured to see in this space.

How will I do this?

FIND OUT MORE HERE!

Kaleidoscope is a hub for TRUSTED Coaches, Mentors, and Consultants who are looking to collaborate and build a referral network so that we can ensure that anyone who comes into the world of coaching knows that they are out in front of a Coach, Mentor, or Specialist?who is qualified, experienced, insured, and SAFE.

If you want to be part of it find out more above!

What does this mean for you on my newsletter list?

It means that you are in good hands. It means that when you are ready to access support for you or your business, I WILL be there!?

It means that if you need something different from what I offer you can rest assured I?will put you in the hands of people who share the same values of honesty, integrity, and reciprocation.?

I don't work with?charlatans and nor should you!

If you do want to work with me, take a look at my packages below, and let's find a way!

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