What Color Are You?
Howdy! Hey there! Yes, you! I have a secret to share but don't tell anyone!
I turned 40 this month.
At this point you are probably wondering why you are reading this article. This is a business social site, not Facebook. I hear ya! But trust me - there is a good reason I am writing this here. If you find yourself in a space of change or evolution, keep reading, this article is for you. I don't know who you are, but I am writing this for you.
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To properly write this article I must go back to 28-year-old Nicki. I promise it'll add context. Let's say your life is a color wheel and your color is who you are meant to be. At 28 I wasn't just a few shades off; I was a whole different spectrum. I was a flat grey tone - depressed and cold. I was married, with one child, unhappy in my career, had dropped out of college, no friends, and no hobbies. It was at this time that I had my life epiphany. It happened at some arbitrary moment sitting on a bar stool. No one said anything life changing to me, my brain just got exhausted with self-pity. It got tired of going to the well of reasons I felt unaccomplished. My mind suddenly understood I was responsible for my reality, and this meant I was also responsible for the solution. I was responsible for achieving what I was capable of. In a flash (a few seconds) I could see the roadmap of my future and I knew the destination age, 40.?While it sounds like a long time, I was worried 12 years was not enough to accomplish what I wanted and become my true color!
Here we are, 12 years later. 12 years of growth. 12 years of change. 12 years of evolving. I have graduated college, built a career, had a major move, found sports/hobbies again, made new friendships, and re-sparked old friendships. I've also experienced the cancer diagnoses of my dad, death of my grandma, and my marriage ending. I have learned to love deeper and be more vulnerable than I ever thought was possible. There are so many lessons I could share about my evolution, but these are the 5 that kept me on my true north, and they happen to be applicable to business leaders!
To whomever is reading this, I hope these 5 lessons help you. I learned them by taking the slow and hard path. I can proudly say that I am no longer a flat grey color. So, what color am I? I have asked people and I love it when they say red!
Strategic Regional Sales Manager ?????? at HireVue
1 年Happy birthday Nicki Tafolla!! Life throws us so many challenges! I love this, love your positivity and these lessons you’ve shared ????
Talent Acquisition Professional at Whataburger
1 年Great insight and most definitely RED!
Zone Director at Church’s Chicken
1 年Great lessons, not often you get to read something that powerful
Thankful
1 年Well done my friend. Great to read your 5 keys to finding your true self. Reflection is a very powerful experience if and when you dig deep enough. Clearly you have and are better for it.
Operating partner at Whataburger
1 年This was a great read ! Love this ??