What Can You Control

Do you ever look at people and wonder why on Earth are they behaving that way? What about the way other people drive? Or maybe even why your friend can’t see why they aren't being successful in getting a job?

All of these things are factors beyond your own control. So let me ask you this, “Why do you spend time trying to work on achieving a result on things that you have no control over in the first place?” Ok so you might be thinking that even though you can’t control other people, you may be able to influence their decision. Hmm good point but where does your mind spend most of its time?

Whenever you find yourself thinking about situations where you do not have full control over, stop and ask yourself are you wasting your time even thinking about it plus adding extra workload and potential stress to a situation in which you will never have the final say in.

The above also goes for people who wish to work with you (or maybe already do) and where they wish to have majority of control. Again you cannot control their actions or way of thinking however you can control your actions and definitely your way of thinking. Firstly need to decide if working with that person will diminish your brand and value that you offer. There is an easy answer to this. Ask yourself the following question, “If I work/collaborate with this person will they add value to my business/brand without adding any extra pressure (stress) along with taking up all of my time and energy?” Your answer, most of the time, should help guide you along the right path.

When you catch yourself thinking about someone's behaviour or actions, try to remind yourself that no one is perfect and that everyone is fighting their own battle to protect themselves along with their business and reputation.

As they always say, Life is Too Short, so stop worrying about what others think or do, always remember that not everyone will agree with you and that it's ok.

Lastly, stay in control and you'll find yourself not only being more successful with work but you'll be a happier person for it.

Regards

Dino Pacella

Multi Award Winning Business Development Manager

Founder of National Finance Brokers Day

Disclaimer:

This content has been prepared for general information purposes only, all views expressed are my own and is not (and cannot be construed or relied upon as) personal advice, as it does not take into account your personal, financial situation or market conditions.